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Toxic Relationship Belief: How It Sabotages Success

Toxic Relationship Belief: How It Sabotages Success

Approaching relationships as a place where you can drop all role-playing and be accepted unconditionally is a toxic belief that can sabotage your success Questions to inspire discussion    What is the toxic belief discussed in the video? —The toxic belief discussed in the video is that relationships should be a place where you can drop all role-playing and be accepted unconditionally. How can this toxic belief sabotage success in relationships? —This toxic belief can sabotage success in relationships by creating unrealistic expectations and leading to disappointment when those expectations are not met. What is the alternative approach to relationships...

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The Problem with 50-50 Relationships: When Equality Feels Unfair

The Problem with 50-50 Relationships: When Equality Feels Unfair

50-50 relationships don't work because women often prefer unequal splits and end up assuming a greater share, leading to unsustainable and unfair dynamics Questions to inspire discussion What is the key idea of the video? —The key idea is that 50-50 relationships don't work because women often prefer unequal splits and end up assuming a greater share. What is the maximum level of equality most women are willing to accept in a relationship? —Most women are willing to accept a 50-50 relationship as the maximum level of equality. What do men believe is the definition of fairness in relationships? —Men...

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Cracking the Code: The Power of Psychological Incentives

Cracking the Code: The Power of Psychological Incentives

Understanding the incentives that drive someone's behavior is more effective than relying on personality metrics, and that psychological sticks and carrots are more influential than actual rewards or punishments  Questions to inspire discussion What influences people's behavior more than personality metrics? —People's behavior is influenced more by psychological carrots and sticks that exist in their perception, rather than personality metrics. What is the key to understanding people's behavior? —The key to understanding people's behavior is knowing how to use the right incentives to get what you want from them. Are actual rewards and punishments the most influential factors in behavior?...

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What MEN and WOMEN have to do in order TO LOVE: how to get better at loving

What MEN and WOMEN have to do in order TO LOVE: how to get better at loving
Men and women face unique challenges with respect to being able to love. In this episode, I will address each of these challenges in turn. The issue with women is that their love -- while pure -- tends to get mixed up with a bunch of other impurities. Consequently, women need to filter their transmission of love until it is unadulterated. On the other hand, the issue with men is that life demands that they become hard, and then -- having become hard -- to soften. As a result, men need to love like a tree, which is firm and dependable without being rigid and unyielding. Social Media Facebook: https://facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090053889622 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/orion-taraban-070b45168/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/psyc.hacks Twitter: https://twitter.com/oriontaraban Website: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com Thinking of going to grad school? Check out STELLAR, my top-rated GRE self-study program based on the world's only empirically-validated test prep system. Use the code "PSYCH" for 10% off all membership plans: https://stellargre.com. GRE Bites: https://www.youtube.com/@grebites4993 Become a Psychonaut and join PsycHack's member community: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSduXBjCHkLoo_y9ss2xzXw/join Book a paid consultation: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com/consultations Sponsor an episode: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com/sponsor-an-episode Sound mixing/editing by @valntinomusic. Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world. #psychology #relationship #love

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The Problem with Modern Dating: Privileges vs Responsibilities

The Problem with Modern Dating: Privileges vs Responsibilities
I often hear women on the dating market speak of their difficulties in finding a man interested in a committed, long-term relationship. In this episode, I will explain why that might be the case. To the extent that the purpose of dating is to enter into such a relationship, modern dating doesn't work. And that is because the privileges given to and the responsibilities expected of men are not allocated properly over the course of a relationship to incentivize his commitment. Until this is addressed, women will be fighting an uphill battle. "Men want to be alone": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q9blas1Xtoc Thinking of going to grad school? Check out STELLAR, my top-rated program and the world's only empirically-validated GRE test prep system. Use the code "PSYCH" for 10% off all membership plans: https://stellargre.com. Orion is a licensed psychologist in the state of California. Podcast available of Spotify, Instagram, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts and others. See the "About" tab for more information on donations and consultations. Website: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com #commitment #relationship #dating

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