Women are frustrated with the lack of reciprocation in relationships and are outraged by the "SoftGuy Era" where men want to be provided for without doing anything, and they believe that equality in relationships is not truly 50/50 when considering vulnerability, STD risk, pregnancy, childbearing, and submission
Questions to inspire discussion
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Why are women frustrated in relationships?
—Women are frustrated with the lack of reciprocation in relationships and find it hypocritical for men to complain about the "soft guy era" when they themselves don't want to provide emotional support.
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What is the "SoftGuy Era"?
—The "SoftGuy Era" refers to men wanting to be provided for without doing anything, and women are outraged by this and believe that equality in relationships is not truly 50/50.
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How are women reacting to the "SoftGuy Era"?
—Women are setting strict requirements for men if they are going to pay all the bills and are embracing the idea of having control in relationships.
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What tactics are women using to control men?
—Women are shaming men for expressing their emotions and holding themselves to a standard, using tactics like calling them insecure or gay, but now that women have equal rights and pay, they should stop using these tactics.
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What is the perception of the "SoftGuy Era" movement on TikTok?
—Many women see the "SoftGuy Era Drizzle Drizzle" movement on TikTok as a joke and a way for men to mock women, but they also don't see it as anything special or threatening.
Key Insights
- 😂 "It's so funny to see men talking about soft boy era whatever we don't want to provide anymore."
- 🤔 The idea of true 50/50 equality in a relationship is challenged by the unequal burdens of pregnancy and childbearing.
- 💁♀️ "I am the one that will probably provide you with more Big O's than you can provide me and I'm not saying this to shame men or um."
- 💁♀️ "I genuinely just don't see what the purpose is and what we're offering and like what you'd be offering that would be a good compromise."
- 😂 The "soft guy era" movement on TikTok is a reverse psychology satire that has sparked a lot of controversy and reactions from women.
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Clips
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00:00 👩 Women react to the SoftGuy Era and are outraged by men wanting to be provided for without doing anything.
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01:13 👩 Women frustrated with lack of reciprocation in relationships and find it hypocritical for men to complain about "soft guy era" when they don't want to provide emotional support.
- Men are flipping gender roles and women are reacting negatively, but it's about reciprocation and treating others with respect.
- Women are frustrated with the lack of reciprocation in relationships and find it hypocritical for men to complain about the "soft guy era" when they themselves don't want to provide emotional support.
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02:51 👩 Women are setting strict requirements for men in relationships and should stop using tactics to control them, now that they have equal rights and pay.
- Women are embracing the idea of having control in relationships and are setting strict requirements for men if they are going to pay all the bills.
- Men are being shamed for expressing their emotions and holding themselves to a standard, while women use tactics like calling them insecure or gay to control them, but now that women have equal rights and pay, they should stop using these tactics.
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04:20 👩 Women are shamed for wanting equal rights and equal pay, and the 50/50 relationship dynamic is shut down when women refuse to participate, as equality in relationships is not truly 50/50 when considering vulnerability, STD risk, pregnancy, childbearing, and submission, and some want the benefits without the equal effort.
- Women are shamed for wanting equal rights and equal pay, and the 50/50 relationship dynamic is shut down when women refuse to participate.
- Equality in relationships is not truly 50/50 when considering vulnerability, STD risk, pregnancy, childbearing, and submission, and some want the benefits without the equal effort.
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06:40 🤔 Women need to stop shaming men for their behavior and instead be thankful that more men are showing their true selves, but the "soft guy era" is confusing and unlikely to work for our generation.
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08:10 👩 Women feel that in a straight relationship, they give more to men biologically and should be provided and protected in return.
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09:45 👎 Many women don't see the appeal of the "SoftGuy Era" and doubt its success, suggesting that older women or desperate individuals may be the only ones interested, while some men in relationships with 50/50 women are overly controlling and interfering in other women's lives.
- Many women don't see the appeal of the "SoftGuy Era" and doubt its success, suggesting that older women or desperate individuals may be the only ones interested.
- Some men in relationships with 50/50 women are overly controlling and interfering in other women's lives, even though those women are not interested in them.
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11:50 👩 Women react to the "SoftGuy Era Drizzle Drizzle" movement on TikTok, seeing it as a joke and a way for men to mock women, but not as anything special or threatening.
- Women are reacting to the "SoftGuy Era Drizzle Drizzle" movement on TikTok, which they see as a joke and a way for men to mock women, but they also don't see it as anything special or threatening.
- Men in the "SoftGuy Era" expect women to provide for them financially and do all the household and childcare duties, while still expecting the women to give them half of their salary, leading to the perception that they are not fully providing for the woman.
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Duration: 0:15:55
Publication Date: 2024-04-21T18:11:23Z
WatchUrl: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qydRgZ1-l48
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