Why REAL Men Are Viewed As TOXIC By Women

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Why REAL Men Are Viewed As TOXIC By Women

Scott Galloway explores the evolving concept of masculinity, contrasting traditional views with a new, more nuanced understanding, while addressing the complexities of female empowerment and societal expectations

 

Questions to inspire discussion 

Shifting Perceptions of Masculinity

🔄Q: How has the view of traditional masculinity changed according to psychological associations?
A: The American Psychological Association in 2017 deemed conventional masculinity a cause for concern, and by 2018-2019, it was classified as a personality disorder in the DSM-5.

🧠Q: What traits are now associated with conventional masculinity?
A: Conventional masculinity is now characterized by traits traditionally considered feminine, such as empathy, gentleness, and understanding.

Contrasting Masculinity Types

💪Q: How does the Trump/Hulk Hogan form of masculinity differ from the modern version?
A: The Trump and Hulk Hogan forms of masculinity are straightforward and candid, while the modern version is described as mealy-mouthed and wishy-washy.

👨‍🎤Q: What is the more socially acceptable form of masculinity today?
A: The man-bun feminized version of masculinity is considered more palatable to modern society.

Impact on Society

🏥Q: What does the DSM-5 classification of traditional masculinity indicate?
A: The 2018-2019 APA DSM-5 classification of traditional masculinity as a personality disorder reflects a significant change in how society views and diagnoses masculinity.

 

Key Insights 

Shifting Perceptions of Masculinity

🔄The American Psychological Association in 2017 and the DSM-5 in 2018-2019 reclassified conventional masculinity from a cause for concern to a personality disorder, signaling a significant shift in societal views on masculinity.

🧠Traits traditionally considered feminine, such as empathy, gentleness, and understanding, are now being associated with conventional masculinity, indicating a redefinition of masculine characteristics.

Contrasting Masculinity Styles

💪The Trump and Hulk Hogan forms of masculinity, characterized by being straightforward, candid, and risk-taking, were effective in 2016 but are now less socially acceptable.

🎭A more feminized version of masculinity, described as mealy-mouthed and wishy-washy, is becoming increasingly palatable to modern society, contrasting with traditional masculine archetypes.

Impact on Psychological Diagnosis

🏥The 2018-2019 APA DSM-5 classification of traditional masculinity as a personality disorder represents a fundamental change in how masculinity is viewed and diagnosed in psychological contexts.

 

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Clips 

  • 00:00 🤔 The speaker contrasts traditional masculinity with a more ambiguous version while expressing a conflicted view on female behavior.
    • The speaker contrasts conventional masculinity, represented by figures like Hulk Hogan and Trump, with a more feminized, ambiguous version of masculinity that lacks straightforwardness.
    • The speaker expresses a conflicted view on female behavior, claiming to be different from other girls while still engaging in similar actions.
  • 01:42 🧔 Scott Galloway discusses the shift from traditional masculinity, criticized by the APA, to a new, more desirable form of masculinity emerging in society.
    • Scott Galloway contrasts conventional masculinity, exemplified by figures like Trump, with evolving societal norms since the sexual revolution.
    • Conventional masculinity has been labeled a concern by the American Psychological Association, suggesting it may be treated as a personality disorder, while a new form of masculinity, referred to as "malls," is emerging as more desirable.
  • 03:48 💥 Women are portrayed as both empowered superheroes and vulnerable victims, creating a conflicting narrative in society.
    • 04:58 🛡️ Men face legal repercussions for protecting women, highlighting a conflict between traditional masculinity and modern male identity.
      • Men are criticized for not protecting women, yet when one does intervene, he faces legal consequences.
      • Women often desire a certain type of masculinity that emphasizes traditional protective traits, but this may overlook the complexities of modern male identity and emotional understanding.
    • 06:24 💬 Modern discussions on masculinity often misinterpret traditional male behavior, conflating it with feminine approaches to emotional expression.
      • 07:58 🗣️ Scott Galloway's discussion highlights the metaphor of keeping individuals confined to a limiting environment, akin to slavery on a plantation.
        • 08:37 💬 Men are not obligated to prioritize women's needs over their own, challenging the notion that they should facilitate women's lives.
          • 09:54 😺 Petting a cat backwards symbolizes the discomfort people feel when confronting unflattering truths about female nature and solipsism. 

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          Duration: 0:10:56

          Publication Date: 2024-09-25T12:44:03Z

          WatchUrl: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bOjS9QSsf1Y

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