Men should stop engaging in arguments with women using logic and reason, and instead focus on setting boundaries, disengaging from conflict, and negotiating calmly in order to resolve disagreements in a healthy way
Questions to inspire discussion
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Why should men stop using logic and reason in arguments with women?
—Men should stop using logic and reason in arguments with women because it is ineffective and can escalate conflict.
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What is the suggested approach for resolving disagreements with women?
—The suggested approach for resolving disagreements with women is to set boundaries, disengage from conflict, and negotiate calmly.
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Why does the speaker recommend disengaging from arguments with new women?
—The speaker recommends disengaging from arguments with new women because they may seek out or create reasons to argue.
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How can men stop arguing with women in a long-term relationship?
—Men can stop arguing with women in a long-term relationship by making an overt statement to stop arguing and focusing on setting boundaries and negotiating calmly.
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What is the key to resolving disagreements with women in a healthy way?
—The key to resolving disagreements with women in a healthy way is to avoid engaging in conflict and negotiate calmly.
Key Insights
- 🐷 "You don't get into the mud and roll around with a pig. It gets happy when you get down in the ground and roll around with it."
- 🟡 Use the yellow card red card Theory to set boundaries in arguments with emotional people and avoid engaging in logic and reason.
- 🚪 If they persist, just get up and walk away from the situation.
- 🛑 At the end of the day, you don't want to invite them into your life anyway.
- 💔 If you find yourself leaving your own house frequently due to drama, ask yourself what you're doing with this woman.
- 📅 If you find yourself tolerating disrespectful behavior in a long-term relationship, it may be time to reevaluate and make a decision.
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Clips
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00:00 🚫 Stop arguing with women using logic and reason, instead focus on resolving disagreements in a different way.
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01:00 🚫 Avoid arguing with women and instead disengage from conflict and negotiate calmly, making an overt statement to stop arguing in long-term relationships.
- Arguing with women is ineffective, instead, it's better to avoid engaging in conflict and negotiate calmly.
- Women may seek out or create reasons to argue, so the speaker suggests disengaging from arguments with new women and making an overt statement to stop arguing with women in a long-term relationship.
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02:26 🛑 Don't engage emotional people in logic and reason, use the yellow card red card Theory to set boundaries in arguments with women.
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03:30 🚫 Disengage from arguments and conflicts with women, walk away instead of getting into the mud with them.
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04:24 🚫 If a woman taunts you, shows disrespect, and seeks drama, it's best to set boundaries, walk away, and consider other options.
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05:34 🛑 Set boundaries with women by giving them a "yellow card" and "red card" for their behavior, and consider ending the relationship if necessary.
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06:46 🚫 Don't waste time arguing with disrespectful women, evaluate your relationship and make a decision based on your worth.
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07:53 👍 Set clear boundaries and communicate your values, and don't engage in unnecessary conflict with others.
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