Dating older rich men can provide valuable experiences and opportunities, but it's important to prioritize mutual respect, independence, and communication in the relationship
Questions to inspire discussion
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Why does the speaker prefer dating older men?
—The speaker prefers dating older men because she feels more mature and believes they have the time and experience to treat her the way she wants.
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What should you avoid in a relationship with older rich men?
—It's important to avoid purely transactional relationships and becoming too materialistic, as older rich men will lose interest if you do.
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What should high value women do in a relationship with older rich men?
—High value women should know their worth, say no to material things, and be seen for who they are, as rich men will spoil a woman who does so.
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Why is it important to be independent in a relationship with older rich men?
—It's important to be independent and make your own money, so that you don't rely solely on a man and can stand on your own feet, which will earn their respect.
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What should you communicate in a relationship with older rich men?
—It's important to set boundaries and communicate your worth to prevent disrespect and mistreatment in a relationship with older rich men.
Key Insights
- 🌟 It's not wrong for a man to provide a better life for a woman next to him, regardless of age.
- 🎭 The speaker feels disconnected from people her own age, finding them immature and lacking the depth and experience she seeks in a partner.
- 🧠 It's not your responsibility to heal or work through a rich older man's traumas, as they will only traumatize you in the process.
- 💎 The ability to say no to things that are available and yes to the best makes a woman a high value woman.
- 💪 Having your own money and being passionate about something helps you stand on your feet and survive, especially after a breakup.
- 🚫 Do not move in with successful rich men, always have your own place where you feel safe.
- 👑 You have to remind yourself every single day that you are very valuable and important in the relationship.
- 👨👧 Always make sure that the guy you're dating knows that your dad is the most important man in your life.
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Clips
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00:00 💡 Dating older (rich) men can provide a better life and experiences, but it's important to avoid purely transactional relationships.
- Dating older men has taught the speaker valuable lessons and she wants to share her experiences and advice with others.
- Dating older (rich) men can provide a better life and experiences, but it's important to avoid purely transactional relationships.
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01:28 👴 Older, rich men seek younger, fun women for non-committal relationships, while I prefer them for their maturity and ability to treat me the way I want.
- I prefer dating older men because I am more mature and they have the time and experience to treat me the way I want.
- Older, rich men often seek younger, pure, and fun women for non-committal relationships, as they feel powerful and want to have fun without the responsibilities of a committed relationship.
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03:00 🔑 Dating older rich men may hide their insecurities at first, but it's not your responsibility to heal them and it can be traumatizing to try.
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03:36 💰 High value women don't prioritize material things when dating older rich men, who want to be appreciated for who they are.
- Dating older rich men will test you by showering you with gifts and if you become too materialistic, they will lose interest.
- High value women know their worth and say no to material things, rich men want to be seen for who they are and will spoil a woman who does so.
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05:08 💡 It's important to be independent and make your own money, so you don't rely solely on a man and can stand on your own feet.
- The speaker learned to be independent and not rely on the older man's money, which earned their respect.
- It's important to make your own money and have something you're passionate about, so that you don't rely solely on a man and can stand on your own feet.
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06:38 👩🏫 Dating older (rich) men can be a learning experience for both parties, as the younger person brings value and knowledge to the relationship as well.
- Do not move in with older rich men and they will think they are responsible for teaching you how to live.
- Dating older (rich) men can be a learning experience for both parties, as the younger person brings value and knowledge to the relationship as well.
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07:48 🔑 Set boundaries and communicate your worth to prevent disrespect, and never speak badly about your family to older, rich men.
- Set boundaries and communicate your worth in a relationship with older (rich) men to prevent disrespect and mistreatment.
- Never talk badly about your family to your older, rich men, as it will affect your relationship and their respect for your parents.
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09:15 👩 Don't talk badly about your parents to your guy, respect your dad, and ask for a second part of this video if you want more lessons from me.
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