Women are attracted to men based on initial attraction and certain desirable traits, but they also value those traits coming from the men themselves, leading to confusion for men who possess the desired qualities but are not chosen by women.
Questions to inspire discussion
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What factors do women consider when choosing a partner?
—Women consider initial attraction and desirable traits in men when choosing a partner.
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Do women value the traits coming from men themselves?
—Yes, women value the desirable traits coming from men themselves.
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Why do men get confused when they possess desired qualities but are not chosen by women?
—Men get confused because women value not only the desired qualities but also the traits coming from the men themselves.
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What is the importance of initial attraction for women?
—Initial attraction is important for women when choosing a partner.
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What can lead to confusion for men in the dating scene?
—Men can get confused when they possess the desired qualities but are not chosen by women.
Key insights
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💼 The expectations women have for men, such as emotional support and commitment, can be costly.
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🤯 The response to a certain situation can mess with men's minds.
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🤔 The important part that women always leave out when answering what they want in a man can be confusing for men who possess qualities they believe women are looking for.
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💁♀️ Women do want the traits listed by men, but they want them from the men themselves.
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💡 Female attraction is not based on the criteria that women explicitly list, highlighting the complexity and nuances of attraction.
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🤔 "They want these things from men, which means that the attraction comes first before they know whether the men in question possess these sought after traits."
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🗣️ "Being physically fit, knowing how to dress, learning the art of charming conversation, choosing a life mission, attaining success, and picking up some game are all skills that benefit you directly with the indirect benefit of making you more attractive to women."
Timestamped Summary
- 👩⚕️ Women often omit their desire for emotional support, safety, commitment, honesty, and a family when discussing what they want in a man.
- 💡 Men's minds are greatly affected by the response mentioned, which is explained further in the video.
- 🔑 Women often omit an important aspect when explaining what they want in a man, causing confusion for men who possess qualities they believe women desire.
- 💡 Women want men who possess the traits they desire, but they also want those traits to come from the men themselves.
- 🔑 Women do not openly state the factors that attract them to men, but rather the criteria that motivate them to choose certain attractive men over others, which means female attraction is not based on the criteria they explicitly list.
- 👩🦰 Women are attracted to men based on initial attraction, even if the men do not possess the desired traits they claim to be looking for.
- 💡 Become an attractive man by developing skills such as physical fitness, dressing well, having charming conversations, pursuing a life mission, achieving success, and learning game, as these are all things that women respond to and make you more attractive to them.
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