Men and women often do the right things with the wrong partners, and it is important for men to keep a tight rein on their emotions, especially when meeting a woman they are authentically excited about after unsatisfying engagements in the sexual marketplace
Questions to inspire discussion
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What is the importance of using a numerical scale in representing interest in potential partners?
—The speaker discusses using a numerical scale to represent subjective interest in potential partners and the importance of approach in social settings.
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Why do men often approach less attractive women?
—Men often approach less attractive women because they mistakenly believe they are a safer option, but they fail to understand that women have the same standards regardless of their attractiveness.
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Why is it important for men to keep a tight rein on their emotions when meeting a woman they are excited about?
—Investing more interest and emotion in a woman than she invests in you can turn you into the pursuer and chase her away, so it's important to keep a tight rein on your emotions and not pursue women.
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What should men do to observe the results of their approach to different situations?
—Stick to your system and control your emotions, apply the same approach to different situations, and observe the results.
Key Insights
- 🔥 Men and women do the right things with the wrong partners, a topic too complex to cover in one episode.
- 💡 While men tend to titrate their standards to match the attractiveness of the woman, women kind of don't, as the six is very likely to have the same standards with respect to men.
- 🔥 Men are more likely to be sexually aggressive with women they perceive as less attractive, as they see less value in investing time and energy in them.
- 🚹 The problem is that your attraction literally with your perception and you end up thinking that the two are somehow categorically different. They're not that's all in your head.
- 🧠 It is essential for men to keep a tight rein on their emotions, especially when meeting a woman they are authentically excited about after unsatisfying engagements in the sexual marketplace.
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Clips
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00:00 👨 Men often make the mistake of doing the right things with the wrong women, a topic that will be discussed in future episodes.
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00:30 🔑 Men often approach less attractive women thinking they are a safer option, but fail to understand that women have the same standards regardless of their attractiveness, emphasizing the importance of a numerical scale and approach in social settings.
- The speaker discusses using a numerical scale to represent subjective interest in potential partners and the importance of approach in social settings.
- Men often approach less attractive women because they mistakenly believe they are a safer option, but they fail to understand that women have the same standards regardless of their attractiveness.
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02:14 🔑 Perceptions of attractiveness can lead men to pursue the wrong women, leading to hurt and miscommunication.
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03:54 🔑 Men are more sexually aggressive with women they perceive as less attractive, as they are less likely to invest time and energy in a non-sexual encounter.
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05:09 🚗 Men who take action in relationships tend to achieve their goals more quickly, and the importance of sharing the video for channel growth and supporting through donations.
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05:57 🔑 Don't act too eager after a one night stand, it will make her want you more.
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06:59 🚹 Men often do the right things with the wrong women because they change their behavior when they meet someone they're really excited about.
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08:12 🔑 Stick to your system, control your emotions, and apply the same approach to different situations to avoid pursuing the wrong women.
- Investing more interest and emotion in a woman than she invests in you can turn you into the pursuer and chase her away, so it's important to keep a tight rein on your emotions and not pursue women.
- Stick to your system and control your emotions, apply the same approach to different situations, and observe the results.
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