Men are now considered the prize in relationships and are setting higher standards for women, while also embracing a "soft guy era" and wanting to be spoiled like women
Questions to inspire discussion
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What are men demanding in relationships?
—Men are setting higher standards for women, including financial requirements and personal attributes, and are expecting to be financially supported and showered with gifts in relationships.
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What is the "soft guy era"?
—The "soft guy era" refers to men wanting to be spoiled like women, setting higher standards for women, and embracing a more sensitive and nurturing role in relationships.
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How are women's expectations changing?
—Women are now expected to contribute equally in relationships, financially support men, and meet the higher standards set by men in the "soft guy era."
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What is the speaker's stance on men in relationships?
—The speaker believes that men are now the prize and should be treated as such, with women needing to bring more to the table financially and in terms of respect.
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What is the impact of the current economy on relationships?
—Single people, especially men, struggle to afford a good quality of life in the current economy, making it unrealistic to expect them to be the sole provider in a relationship.
Key Insights
- 🤔 Men need to realize that they are the table, providing for women and children, and should expect equal contribution and teamwork in return.
- 🚫 "I'm not even answering the call unless I get a cash app first like what where is my money from my haircut."
- 🚫 "You can either treat me like a kid or you can get out."
- 💸 The expectation for men to provide financially in a relationship is still prevalent, as seen in the pressure to send money and maintain a certain lifestyle.
- 🤔 The speaker questions why men want to emulate women by getting clear coats on their nails and toes, highlighting the societal pressure on men to conform to certain standards of masculinity.
- 🌍 The soft guy era is a great opportunity for men to tackle toxic masculinity and the patriarchy, and build their character and standards.
- 🚗 The idea that a man deserves only the best and most extravagant treatment because of his perceived worth is a harmful and entitled belief that perpetuates toxic masculinity.
- 🤯 The majority of adults are struggling due to the broken economy, making it difficult for them to afford a good quality of life, let alone dating.
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Clips
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00:00 🌧️ Men are now considered the prize and women should not be expected to bring anything to the table in a relationship.
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01:26 🏆 Men are the prize now, as they want high value women who can take care of them in ridiculous ways, while women demand equality but still expect unequal treatment from men.
- Men in the "soft guy era" want high value women who can take care of them in ridiculous ways, mocking videos where women demand ridiculous things from men.
- Women want equality but demand unequal situations from men, who need to realize they are the table and should no longer be manipulated into old-fashioned ways, as women now have money and need to contribute equally.
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04:02 🏆 Men are now the prize and should be pursued, financially stable, and treated with respect in the "soft guy era."
- Men are now the ones being pursued and expected to be financially stable, and the speaker will not entertain anyone who does not meet those standards.
- Men are now the prize and should be treated as such, with the speaker deciding to join the "soft guy era" and not tolerate disrespect.
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06:09 🏆 Men now expect to be treated as the prize in relationships, setting higher standards for women and noticing a shift in the "soft guy era."
- Men now expect to be treated as the prize and demand to be financially supported and showered with gifts in relationships.
- Men are setting higher standards for women, including financial requirements and personal attributes, and are noticing that women are starting to debate against the "soft guy era."
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09:26 👨 Men and women are equal and should share everything, but unsolicited opinions about feelings are invalidating.
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11:29 🏆 Women should support men financially and send them money for grooming products, as they desperately try to be like men through insults and competition.
- Men are the prize now, and women should be working two jobs to support them financially, while also sending them money for expensive grooming products.
- Women are so desperate to be like men that they resort to insulting and competing with them, but it's all a joke.
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13:35 🏆 Men are the prize now, as many are embracing a "soft boy" era and wanting to be spoiled like women, but they should focus on providing and not trying to be equal in every way.
- Men are making themselves undesirable to women by acting like women, but real providers are happy to provide, and men who want a "soft girl life" are broke and need to make more money or change the economic system.
- Many men are embracing a "soft boy" era and wanting to be spoiled like women, getting clear coats on their nails and wanting to be "baddies," but they should focus on providing and not trying to be equal in every way.
- Men are now considered the prize and women need to bring more to the table financially.
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17:29 🏆 Men need to embrace the "soft guy era" to improve themselves and tackle toxic masculinity, while also struggling to afford a good quality of life in the current economy.
- Men need to embrace the "soft guy era" to improve their character, standards, and hygiene, and to tackle toxic masculinity and the patriarchy in order to solve dating problems.
- Boyfriend broke up because she didn't give him enough money and gifts, he feels entitled to luxury and expects her to spend more on him to prove her love.
- Men are now seen as the prize and deserve the best, while women should stay away if they don't like it.
- Single people, especially men, struggle to afford a good quality of life in the current economy, making it unrealistic to expect them to be the sole provider in a relationship.
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Duration: 0:22:25
Publication Date: 2024-04-21T09:46:34Z
WatchUrl: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=elyVVcGyX4o
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