In modern society, men and women no longer need each other for survival, leading to a shift in relationships where desire, rather than necessity, plays a crucial role
Questions to inspire discussion
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How has modern society affected relationships between men and women?
—Modern society has shifted relationships between men and women from being based on necessity to being based on desire.
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What role does desire play in modern relationships?
—In modern relationships, desire plays a crucial role as it is the main driving force behind the connection between men and women.
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Do men and women still need each other for survival in modern society?
—No, in modern society, men and women no longer need each other for survival due to advancements in technology and changes in societal norms.
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What are the main factors that have led to the shift in relationships between men and women?
—The shift in relationships between men and women can be attributed to advancements in technology, changes in societal norms, and the increased emphasis on individualism.
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How has the shift in relationships affected the dynamics between men and women?
—The shift in relationships has led to a change in dynamics between men and women, with desire becoming a more important factor than necessity in forming connections.
Key insights
- 💔 Modern man and woman no longer need each other in the same way as in the past, leading to a decline in marriage, dating, and sexual relationships.
- 🌍 The further people are from a subsistence level, the more flexible social roles can become, as there is more room for error.
- 🍽️ "We don't have to send the best hunters out for food anymore if other folks want to take a stab at hunting why not let them even if they don't bring back as much food as frequently we're probably not going to starve at least."
- 💔 Men and women no longer have to come together out of necessity, leading to a shift where relationships are based more on desire than need.
- 💔 The illusion of infinite optionality in dating apps and social media has led to a decline in relationships, as people prioritize desire over necessity.
- 💔 The illusion of infinite potential makes people believe they're suffering an enormous loss by trading everything for just one thing, but in reality, they achieve an infinite gain by giving up the infinite potential for a given actual.
- 💑 Both sexes must understand and adapt to what the opposite sex wants, while also being realistic about their own desires in order to secure desired relationships.
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00:00 👩⚕️ Men and women no longer need each other, and the speaker aims to discuss intersectional dynamics without offending men or alienating women.
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01:05 💔 Men and women no longer need each other in the same way as they did in the past, leading to a decline in marriage, dating, and sexual relationships.
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02:09 💔 As people become more affluent and self-sufficient, the need for interpersonal bonds and reliance on others decreases, resulting in declining birth rates and increased loneliness, while in poorer societies, men and women come together out of necessity and discover complementary skills for survival.
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03:46 👫 Men and women no longer need each other for survival, so they can pursue their own desires without fear of starvation.
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04:31 💔 Men and women no longer need each other in the Western world, leading to a shift in relationships where desire, rather than necessity, plays a crucial role.
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06:08 💔 The illusion of infinite options in modern dating has led to a decline in relationships, as people prioritize desire over necessity.
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07:07 💡 People should not settle for less in relationships because retaining infinite potential leads to nothing, while giving up infinite potential for a given actual results in an infinite gain.
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08:15 💔 Men and women are no longer dependent on each other, leading to the need for new relationship strategies and understanding each other's desires.
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