There is a shift in gender dynamics in dating, with some men refusing to pay for dates and expecting women to cover their share, leading to a discussion about power dynamics and societal expectations in relationships
Questions to inspire discussion
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What is the speaker's stance on men paying for dates?
—The speaker refuses to pay for dates and expects the man to cover all expenses and transportation.
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Why are men afraid to approach women?
—Men are afraid to approach women because of the fear of rejection and the changing societal expectations of dating.
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What is the shift in gender dynamics in dating?
—In 2024, many men are refusing to pay for expensive dates with modern women who are seen as materialistic and seeking attention.
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What does the speaker emphasize about wanting a man?
—The speaker discusses the importance of wanting a man for genuine reasons, rather than based on hardships and conditions.
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What does the man do for the first time in six years?
—Man refuses to pay bills for the first time in six years and insists on splurging instead.
Key Insights
- 🤝 "You are using the gifts that we have honed and developed over centuries reason and logic and you've managed to turn the toxic arguments of today's modern woman against them."
- 🕰️ "If you're not in a position to date, don't be dating, work on yourself first."
- 💰 "I don't care how much money I ever make I still want my man to pay for everything he should pick me up."
- 💰 Many guys are finding it not worth the squeeze to spend on materialistic and vain women in the modern era.
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Clips
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00:00 🌧️ A man refuses to pay for a date after the woman doesn't have enough money.
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01:21 💸 Man refuses to pay for date after woman can't cover her share, believes his time is valuable and doesn't do 50/50.
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02:07 🤦♂️ Men are refusing to pay for dates and want women to pick them up, leading to a shift in gender dynamics.
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03:11 💡 The speaker emphasizes the importance of genuine connections and refuses to pay for dates, expecting the man to cover all expenses.
- The speaker discusses the importance of wanting a man for genuine reasons, rather than based on hardships and conditions.
- The speaker refuses to pay for dates and expects the man to cover all expenses and transportation.
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04:51 🚹 Men are afraid to approach women due to fear of rejection and changing societal expectations of dating, leading to a trend of men refusing to pay for expensive dates with modern women seen as materialistic and attention-seeking.
- Men are afraid to approach women because of the fear of rejection and the changing societal expectations of dating.
- In 2024, many men are refusing to pay for expensive dates with modern women who are seen as materialistic and seeking attention.
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06:54 💔 Man refuses to pay for date, highlighting the power dynamics in the relationship.
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07:35 💸 Man enters "Soft Guy Era" and refuses to pay for date, insisting the other person take care of the bill instead.
- Man refuses to pay bills for the first time in six years and insists on splurging instead.
- A man refuses to pay for a date and asks the other person to take care of it instead.
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08:47 🌧️ It's important to know how someone handles difficult scenarios in a relationship before committing to them.
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Duration: 0:10:4
Publication Date: 2024-04-24T00:58:54Z
WatchUrl: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9W7TDGB7dzg
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