Understanding and Responding to Women's Insecurities: A Must-See for Every Man

Men are struggling to meet modern women's high standards and are tired of constantly being tested, but it's important for men to understand and respond to women's insecurities to create a happy and fulfilling relationship 

Questions to inspire discussion

• Why do men feel that women have high standards?

  —Men feel that women have high standards because they rely on men for support and protection in a tough world, leading to different psychological needs and tendencies.

• What is the speaker's view on women working?

  —The speaker questions the value of women working and expresses a preference for being taken care of by a man, highlighting the differences in career choices and social behaviors.

• How can men respond to women's insecurities?

  —Men can respond to women's insecurities by showing compassion and reassurance, which can lead to the company of a kind, feminine woman who supports them in a happy and fulfilling relationship.

• What is the importance of understanding women's testing behavior?

  —Understanding and responding to women's testing behavior is important for men to create a happy and fulfilling relationship, as it requires a lot of trust from women who are investing a lot in the relationship.

• What is the reward for embracing masculine energy and responding to tests?

  —Embracing masculine energy and responding to tests in a way that stops them altogether can satisfy a woman's hypergamy and lead to a happy life, as it makes her feel safe and loved.

Key Insights

• 🤔 The reason men don't have higher standards for a partner is because they are focused on taking on the world and need a supportive, kind partner to come home to.
• 🌍 Men and women approach the world from completely different angles, leading to a lack of understanding between the two.
• 🌍 The effort men put into understanding the world is mirrored by women's effort to understand men for their own advantage.
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• 💡 Raising daughters to have high standards and good judgment in choosing a partner is a way to ensure they don't settle for anything less than they deserve.
• 🤥 The conversation about cheating and lying reveals the toxic dynamics of testing and manipulation in relationships.
• 🌹 A high quality woman may have insecurities, but showing compassion and reassurance can lead to a rewarding and fulfilling relationship.
• 💑 When a man fully embodies his masculine energy, a woman can feel safe and fall into her feminine energy, creating a strong connection.

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Clips 

• 00:00 👨 Men want a supportive, kind woman who takes care of the home, while the speaker questions the value of women working and expresses a preference for being taken care of by a man.
  • Men want a supportive, kind woman who takes care of the home, because they are responsible for their own destiny and just want support from their partner.
  • Men are happy with basic standards, while women have high standards because they rely on men for support and protection in a tough world.
  • The speaker questions the value of women working and expresses a preference for being taken care of by a man.
• 03:00 🚹 Women have high standards and test men because they are biologically dependent on them for survival, while men and women have different psychological needs and tendencies, leading to differences in career choices and social behaviors.
  • Women have high standards and test men because they are biologically dependent on them for survival and need to trust them to provide and protect.
  • Men and women have different psychological needs and tendencies, with men generally not wanting to rely on others as much as women.
  • Men spend time understanding the world, while women spend time understanding men to use them for their benefit.
  • Men are evolutionarily wired to focus on skills like hunting and building, while women are wired to understand people and social interactions, leading to differences in career choices and social behaviors.
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• 07:28 🚹 Men seek to understand the world, while women seek to understand men, and despite women being self-sufficient, their dating instincts remain the same, with high standards and constant testing of men, and it's not a bad thing for women to have standards and test men.
  • Men seek to understand the world, while women seek to understand men, and despite women being self-sufficient, their dating instincts remain the same, with high standards and constant testing of men.
  • Men should want their daughters to choose high-quality men and it's not a bad thing for women to have standards and test men.
• 09:41 🚹 Men struggle to meet modern women's high standards, leading to questions about what truly makes us happy in long-term relationships.
  • In the modern era, certain behaviors are seen as ridiculous, such as showering barefoot and the negative effects of too much rain.
  • Modern women's hypergamous standards and inflated egos make it difficult for regular men to measure up, as women often feel unsatisfied with 80% of their ideal mate, leading to the question of what actually makes us happy in long-term romantic love.
• 11:43 🚹 Men have simple criteria for a second date, while women have a long list of deal breakers, making it difficult for men to meet modern women's high standards.
  • Men have simple criteria for a second date, while women have a long list of deal breakers, including minor details like fashion choices and bad impressions.
  • Modern women have high standards for men, but men feel that women are currently of low quality and unpleasant to be around, making it difficult to meet those standards.
• 13:13 🚫 Men are tired of constantly being tested by women and the scale of testing is ridiculous and needs to stop.
• 14:22 👨 A man needs to understand and respond to a woman's insecurities to create a happy and fulfilling relationship.
  • If you're a good guy who treats her well and has never given her a reason to not trust you, you shouldn't have to put up with constantly being tested, but it's important to understand that as a woman, she is investing a lot in the relationship and it requires a lot of trust from her.
  • Show compassion and reassurance to a woman's insecurities, and the reward will be the company of a kind, feminine woman who supports you.
  • A man needs to fully embrace his masculine energy to make a woman feel safe and loved, and by responding to tests in a way that stops them altogether, he can satisfy her hypergamy and lead to a happy life.

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