The "soft guy era" promoted by online influencers is a reactionary and dishonest concept driven by misogyny and money, and there is a need for a more respectful discussion on gender equality and toxic behavior
Questions to inspire discussion
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What is the "soft guy era" promoted by online influencers?
—The "soft guy era" is a reactionary and dishonest concept driven by misogyny and money, promoted by online influencers to young men.
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What is the Drizzle Drizzle movement?
—The Drizzle Drizzle movement aims to reorient men towards finding high quality women who have high expectations and financial independence, challenging traditional gender roles and expectations.
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How does the media react to the "soft guy era" movement?
—The mainstream media is upset about the "soft guy era" movement, which promotes women paying for everything and men being lazy, and some influencers are supporting this idea.
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What is the difference between the soft girl and soft guy eras on social media?
—The speaker discusses the differences between the soft girl and soft guy eras on social media, highlighting the content and expectations of each.
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What is the speaker's opinion on the concept of "soft guy era"?
—The speaker criticizes the "soft guy era" as a satire on gender equality and calls for a more informed and respectful discussion on the topic.
Key Insights
- 🔥 Men are expected to be traditional while women are empowered to take advantage, creating a double standard.
- 💰 The Drizzle Drizzle movement challenges traditional gender roles and expectations, advocating for women to have high expectations and financial independence.
- 🔥 The "soft girl thing" is an affront to men and an injustice, rooted in patriarchal ideas that online guys usually support.
- 😬 The soft girl era may not be looking for traditional male providers, and they want to be the boss bees.
- 👩💼 The speaker criticizes men who act feminine and whine, using controversial language to express his point of view.
- 🔥 The media often fails to call out toxic behavior in women, contributing to a double standard in society.
- 🏠 More women are buying homes than men, as they are making more money and graduating college at a higher rate, leading to a shift in traditional gender roles.
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Clips
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00:00 🔥 Influencers provoke controversy with misogynistic ideas, media fails to recognize satire, and mainstream media is upset about the "soft guy era" movement.
- Influencers use misogynistic ideas to provoke controversy and increase their views, while the media fails to recognize the satire and pushback against toxic behavior.
- Women are empowered when they receive gifts and prizes from men, but men are criticized for wanting the same in return, and the speaker finds it amusing that this viewpoint is gaining attention.
- Mainstream media is upset about the "soft guy era" movement, which promotes women paying for everything and men being lazy, and some influencers are supporting this idea.
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03:04 🌧️ Drizzle Drizzle movement challenges traditional gender roles and expectations, media ignores backlash.
- The Drizzle Drizzle movement aims to reorient men towards finding high quality women who have high expectations and financial independence, challenging traditional gender roles and expectations.
- The media is not reporting on the backlash against Drizzle Drizzle, which is amusing to the speaker.
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05:07 📰 Stefan Johnson discusses the "soft guy era" promoted by online influencers as a reactionary and dishonest concept driven by misogyny and money, in response to the soft girl trend.
- The speaker discusses a Life Hacker article written by Stephen Johnson, who is a staff writer for the publication and has a background in writing and literature, as well as a history of writing for leftist organizations.
- Stefan Johnson discusses the concept of the "soft guy era" and how online influencers are promoting it to young men.
- The soft guy trend is a reactionary and dishonest concept driven by misogyny and money, in response to the soft girl trend, which is about self-care and being treated by men.
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08:05 🔥 Women demanding high quality things are criticized, influencers use misogynistic ideas to sell products.
- The speaker discusses the idea that women who demand high quality things are not experiencing real struggle, and criticizes the concept of "man fluenc" and traditional gender roles.
- Women who want careers and women who don't are both hated, and influencers use misogynistic ideas to increase their views and sell products.
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10:11 🔥 Conservatives support traditional gender roles, while the left criticizes homemakers; the speaker compares the soft girl and soft guy eras on social media.
- Men should provide financially while women take care of the home, and conservatives are fine with this arrangement while the left shames homemakers.
- The speaker discusses the differences between the soft girl and soft guy eras on social media, highlighting the content and expectations of each.
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12:25 🔥 Women's expectations in relationships, the "soft guy" era, and the need for a more respectful discussion on gender equality and toxic behavior.
- The speaker discusses a situation where a woman asked for money to buy something and the man refused, comparing it to the expectations women have in relationships.
- The speaker discusses how some women understand and appreciate the "soft guy" while others mock and belittle them, and he criticizes men who pretend to be alpha males and prey on young girls.
- The video discusses the concept of "soft guy era" as a satire on gender equality and calls for a more informed and respectful discussion on the topic.
- Women often have unrealistic standards for men, and the media fails to call out toxic behavior when it comes from women.
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17:07 🔥 Women's increasing financial independence and success is upsetting men, who need to be open to women asking them out and treat them equally.
- Men are upset about women's increasing financial independence and success, as evidenced by women outpacing men in home ownership and earning potential.
- Men should not expect women to conform to traditional gender roles and should be open to women asking them out, and women should not feel pressured to conform to traditional gender roles and should feel empowered to ask men out and expect equal treatment.
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19:13 🤷 Women are doing well and if they want to act a certain way, let them, and we'll make fun of it while watching others get upset, and for extra content, join on locals.com for $5 a month.
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Duration: 0:20:09
Publication Date: 2024-05-12T01:00:41Z
WatchUrl: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jm7X2E8K0YA
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