Dating 411 or is it 911?

Lesley Timbol, Relationships -

Dating 411 or is it 911?

Men should focus on self-improvement and building a strong character to increase their attractiveness in dating, while also avoiding engaging with sexually promiscuous women.

Key insights

  • 💪 "Build a strong character to increase your value, character requires strength, a lot of restraint, application, dedication, and yes you do have to work for it."
  • 💪 Setting goals for self-improvement and developing a game plan is crucial for taking responsibility for your life.
  • 🚫 Men can play a role in not rewarding promiscuous behavior by not engaging in meaningless interactions, both sexual and non-sexual.
  • 🤔 It's not about sexual freedom, it's about self-respect and reputation that may affect long-term commitment.
  • 💔 Avoid the hookup culture, it's damaging for both sexes.
  • 🗣️ Clear and honest communication, along with active listening, is essential for a successful relationship.
  • 🌟 Having a clear mission statement of what you can bring to the table as an individual and as a partner is crucial for self-improvement and authenticity.

Timestamped Summary

  • 00:00 💑 Men should focus on self-investment and building a strong character to increase their overall attractiveness in dating.
    • 00:51 👨 Take responsibility for your physical health, set goals, surround yourself with strong men, and be a man of action and accountability.
      • 01:23 🚫 Men should not engage with sexually promiscuous women, as it devalues their worth, and women should avoid casual sex.
        • 02:09 🔥 Self-respect is more important than sexual freedom, as men and potential partners avoid women who brag about their bodies and don't care about their reputation.
          • 02:36 💡 Avoid hookup culture, take time to get to know potential partners, and have realistic expectations for both genders.
            • 03:04 💡 Men and women have unrealistic expectations in dating and should take personal responsibility for reexamining them.
              • 03:31 🔑 Be responsible, authentic, and communicate honestly in relationships, while developing qualities like integrity and resilience.
                • 04:11 🔑 Know your purpose, improve yourself, be authentic, have a clear mission statement, and share the video for more growth.

                   

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