Men should not settle for a partner who doesn't contribute financially to avoid potential loss in divorce, and that children without a father have a higher risk of aggressive behavior and self-harm
Questions to inspire discussion
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Why should men not settle for a partner who doesn't contribute financially?
—Men are at risk of losing everything in a divorce if their partner doesn't contribute financially, so they need to raise their standards.
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What are the potential negative effects of children growing up without a father figure?
—Children without a father have a higher risk of aggressive behavior and self-harm, emphasizing the importance of having a father figure for child well-being.
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How are men embracing the "soft guy era" in real life?
—Men are expecting women to pay for things and do the work, while asserting their own value and demanding to be treated like kings.
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What is the speaker's view on plastic surgery in a partner?
—Plastic surgery is a red flag for the speaker because they want to know what their future kids will look like, and they are not interested in dating someone who has had cosmetic procedures.
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What is the speaker's opinion on single mother households?
—The speaker discusses the correlation between single mother households and negative effects on children, emphasizing the importance of having a father figure for child well-being.
Key Insights
- 💰 Men are encouraged to raise their standards and not settle for a partner who doesn't contribute financially, to avoid potential loss in divorce.
- 🤦♂️ "This is embarrassing for black men well. She talk about how she talking about listen. This is what MLK died for Unity to come together look us soft eror guys."
- 🚨 There's data showing that kids without a father have a much higher likely risk of aggressive behavior including grape or sa as an adult or increased chances of self harm.
- 💥 If a man tells me that he hates women, I know that he's dangerous, but if a woman tells me that she hates men, I know it's just because she's been emotionally done wrong.
- 🤔 "Any kind of serious consideration for your thought process that anybody was willing to provide to you is completely out the window because now they can actually see that you're nothing but an irrational individual who doesn't truly care about Solutions."
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Clips
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00:00 🤔 Men are embracing the "soft guy era" as a real movement and need to raise their standards in relationships.
- Men are embracing the "soft guy era" as a movement in real life, not just as a joke or satire.
- Men need to raise their standards and not settle for women who make less money, as they are at risk of losing everything in a divorce.
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02:05 🤔 The speaker discusses the embarrassment of the soft guy era for black men and their concerns about plastic surgery in dating.
- The speaker discusses the embarrassment of the soft guy era for black men and the confidence in their ability to succeed.
- Plastic surgery is a red flag for the speaker because they want to know what their future kids will look like, and they are not interested in dating someone who has had cosmetic procedures.
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04:04 👨👦👦 Fathers are crucial for child well-being, with studies showing that children raised by both parents are less likely to end up in jail.
- The speaker discusses the correlation between single mother households and negative effects on children, emphasizing the importance of having a father figure for child well-being.
- Fathers should have sole custody by default as studies show they increase the well-being of a child's life and children raised by both parents are less likely to end up in jail.
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06:15 🤔 Men are embracing the "soft guy era" by expecting women to pay for things and do the work, while refusing to pay for bills, pump gas, or take out the trash.
- Men are embracing the "soft guy era" by expecting women to pay for things and do the work, while asserting their own value and demanding to be treated like kings.
- Men are taking the "soft guy era" too far, refusing to pay for bills, pump gas, or take out the trash.
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08:23 🤔 Men love more authentically than women because women are in love with the process and men see love as a responsibility.
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09:49 🤔 Men and women expressing hate towards each other are causing conflict by not taking accountability and treating men as the enemy.
- Men and women who express hate towards each other are irrational and don't truly care about finding solutions.
- Constantly treating men as the enemy and not taking accountability is causing conflict between men and women.
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12:16 🚹 Men are criticized for taking the "soft guy" era too far by worshiping women and giving up their headship in relationships, while the speaker discusses cultural differences in how women are treated.
- Men are being criticized for taking the "soft guy" era too far, with the speaker discussing how women are treated differently in different cultures.
- Men are being criticized for taking the "soft guy era" too far by worshiping women and giving up their headship in relationships.
- The speaker is stuck in traffic and speculates about the cause of the delay.
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16:11 🤔 Women have high standards for men but are praised for it, while men are criticized for having high standards in relationships.
- A woman's high standards were exceeded by her longtime boyfriend, but she still didn't see him as her husband.
- The speaker discusses the double standard in expectations for men and women in relationships, highlighting how women criticize men for having high standards while praising women for the same.
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Duration: 0:18:31
Publication Date: 2024-04-25T10:11:13Z
WatchUrl: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BPvID30H3js
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