Men are embracing the "soft guy" era and advocating for mutual support and appreciation in relationships, challenging traditional dating expectations, and emphasizing the importance of learning from past relationships
Questions to inspire discussion
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What is the "soft guy" era?
—The "soft guy" era refers to men embracing their nurturing and emotional side, challenging traditional dating expectations.
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What are men advocating for in relationships?
—Men are advocating for mutual support, appreciation, and learning from past relationships in relationships.
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How are men challenging traditional dating expectations?
—Men are challenging traditional dating expectations by expressing their emotions, desires, and worth in relationships.
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What is the speaker's view on men embracing the "soft guy" era?
—The speaker criticizes men for embracing the "soft guy" era and suggests that women do not want men who exhibit these behaviors.
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What is the importance of learning from past relationships?
—The speaker emphasizes the importance of learning from past relationships and flipping the script on women's expectations in dating.
Key Insights
- 💔 Leaving the soft life for poverty is heartbreaking, and poverty is not our portion.
- 🤔 "I spent what 7 near eight years in my last relationship and then it ended and I realized afterwards like okay. Just wasn't supposed to happen but I learned so much through that process."
- 💔 "We're not settling for women like you. No more I absolutely cannot and I repeat cannot afford another bond with the wrong Soul like I don't know about y'all."
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Clips
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00:00 🤔 Men criticized for embracing "soft guy" era, speaker suggests women don't want men exhibiting traditional chivalry, calls out someone for promoting "soft guy era" while giving sugar daddy advice.
- Men are being criticized for embracing the "soft guy" era and expressing desires for traditional chivalry, with the speaker suggesting that women do not want men who exhibit these behaviors.
- The speaker calls out someone for promoting a "soft guy era" while giving advice on maintaining a sugar daddy and not being attracted to him.
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01:52 🤔 The speaker questions the authenticity of the "soft guy era" and discusses the concept of submission in marriage and sharing money between spouses.
- The speaker discusses the contrast between the "soft guy era" and the reality of poverty, questioning the authenticity of a person's lifestyle and relationships.
- The speaker discusses the concept of submission in marriage and the idea that all money in a family should be shared between spouses.
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03:32 🤔 Men are expressing a desire for women to protect and finance them without control, and seeking advice on how to handle their wives' behavior and appearance.
- A man feels unsafe and violated when his girlfriend doesn't protect him from a creepy old woman at Target and expresses a desire for a woman who will finance his hobbies and trips without having any control over his bank accounts.
- Man complains about his wife's behavior and appearance, seeking advice on how to handle the situation.
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05:52 🤔 Men are challenging traditional dating expectations and emphasizing the importance of learning from past relationships.
- Men are flipping the script on women's expectations in dating, and the speaker emphasizes the importance of learning from past relationships.
- The speaker discusses the idea that marriage should not be rushed and that finding the right person should not be stressful.
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08:32 👨👨👦 Men are embracing the "soft guy" era, advocating for mutual support and appreciation in relationships, and being encouraged to recognize their worth and express their emotions while also giving space and being there for each other.
- Men are embracing the "soft guy" era and advocating for mutual support and appreciation in relationships.
- Men are being encouraged to recognize their worth and express their emotions, but it's important to also give space and be there for each other.
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11:05 🤔 Man discusses his approach to dating and the requirements he has for a potential partner.
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12:40 🔍 Men are getting a lot of attention from women and considering multiple relationships, while emphasizing their romantic and nurturing qualities, but James Obie doesn't want anyone from Canada to email him.
- James Obie has been receiving overwhelming marriage proposals and messages from women all around the world, but he does not want anyone from Canada to email him.
- Men are receiving a lot of attention from women and are considering multiple relationships as a backup plan, while also emphasizing their romantic and nurturing qualities.
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14:38 🤔 Men are embracing their soft side and refusing to settle for the wrong women, while women struggle in dating due to lack of teachability.
- Women's ideal sense of romance in popular movies is often portrayed as cheating, and the examples of this are undeniable.
- Men are tired of settling for the wrong women and are embracing their soft side, refusing to be with someone who doesn't offer them what they deserve.
- Men are not being honest about their attraction to women and women struggle in dating because they are not teachable or coachable.
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Duration: 0:17:41
Publication Date: 2024-04-23T10:42:18Z
WatchUrl: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qoFteHknw80
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