Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence - Dr. Anna Lembke

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Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence - Dr. Anna Lembke

Understanding our brain's pleasure-pain balance and limiting our exposure to highly reinforcing drugs and behaviors can help us find balance and reduce mental health issues in an age of indulgence 

Questions to inspire discussion

  • Why are people in high-income countries reporting lower levels of happiness and higher rates of anxiety and depression?People in high-income countries are reporting lower levels of happiness and higher rates of anxiety and depression due to the disruption of the brain's pleasure-pain balance caused by the abundance of highly reinforcing drugs and behaviors available.

  • How can understanding the brain's pleasure-pain balance help us find balance in an age of indulgence?Understanding the brain's pleasure-pain balance can help us find balance in an age of indulgence by allowing us to wait for the brain to restore balance naturally, rather than constantly seeking pleasure to feel normal.

  • What are the consequences of compulsive overconsumption and easy access to high reward drugs?Compulsive overconsumption and easy access to high reward drugs can lead to an increased risk of addiction and diseases caused by modifiable behavioral risk factors, such as depression, anxiety, physical pain, and suicide.

  • How can limiting screen time and video game playing reduce anxiety and depression?Limiting screen time and video game playing can reduce anxiety and depression by allowing the brain to restore balance and reducing the overstimulation caused by excessive use of screens and video games.

  • How can inviting pain into our lives have positive effects on mood, anxiety, cognition, energy, and sleep?Inviting pain into our lives can have positive effects on mood, anxiety, cognition, energy, and sleep by triggering the body's own homeostatic mechanisms, making us less vulnerable to pain and more able to experience pleasure. 

Key Insights

  • 😔 Despite unprecedented wealth and technological progress, people in high-income countries, including the United States, reported being less happy in recent years.
  • 🌡️ An increase in access to pleasure can lead to the degradation of mental health, highlighting the importance of finding balance in an age of indulgence.
  • 🧠 The access to highly reinforcing drugs and behaviors, such as texting, tweeting, gaming, and gambling, has never been greater, leading to a world of overwhelming abundance and addiction.
  • 🎮 Excessive video game playing can be a contributing factor to debilitating anxiety, depression, and suicidal thoughts in young individuals.
  • 🎮 Practicing self-binding, such as limiting video game playing time and avoiding highly addictive games, can help maintain balance and prevent negative effects on mental well-being.
  • 😣 The brain can become preoccupied with using a drug, even when committed to abstinence, highlighting the powerful hold that certain substances or behaviors can have on individuals.
  • 💪 Exercise has more profound and sustained positive effects on mood, anxiety, cognition, energy, and sleep than any pill.
  • 🌍 Instead of seeking oblivion through escape, immerse yourself fully in life and face whatever you're trying to escape, as the world may reveal itself as something magical and awe-inspiring. 

 

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Clips 

  • 00:00 🤔 Despite modern comforts, people in high-income countries are experiencing lower levels of happiness and higher rates of mental health issues.
    • In a time of unprecedented wealth, freedom, technological progress and medical advancement, people in high-income countries are reporting lower levels of happiness and higher rates of anxiety and depression.
  • 01:56 🤔 Understanding our brain's pleasure-pain balance can help us find balance in an age of indulgence.
    • The brain's pleasure-pain balance seeks to stay level, and understanding this can help us find balance in an age of indulgence.
    • Our brains work to restore balance, but if we don't wait for it to happen, we can end up with an increased need for pleasure to feel normal.
  • 04:47 🤯 Abundance of highly reinforcing drugs & behaviors has disrupted our pleasure-pain balance, leading to increasing rates of depression, anxiety, physical pain, & suicide, especially in wealthy nations.
    • Our evolved balance of pleasure and pain has been disrupted by the abundance of highly reinforcing drugs and behaviors available with just a finger click away.
    • Rates of depression, anxiety, physical pain, and suicide are increasing globally, especially in wealthy nations, due to compulsive overconsumption leading to diseases caused by modifiable behavioral risk factors.
  • 07:29 🤔 Designating one laptop for gaming and limiting playtime to two days a week and two hours a day can help restore balance and reduce anxiety and depression.
    • Lack of access to meaningful work, safe housing, quality education, affordable health care and race/class equity, combined with easy access to high reward/potency/novelty drugs, creates a dangerous nexus of addiction risk.
    • By abstaining from screens and limiting video game playing time, a patient was able to restore balance and reduce anxiety and depression.
    • Designate one laptop for gaming and another for schoolwork, play only with friends, and limit gaming to no more than two days a week and two hours a day.
  • 10:45 💪 Challenge yourself to take a break from your drug of choice and notice how your pleasure-pain balance is restored.
    • Challenge yourself to give up your drug of choice for a period of time and notice how your pleasure-pain balance is restored.
    • Pain can lead to pleasure by triggering the body's own homeostatic mechanisms, allowing us to become less vulnerable to pain and more able to feel pleasure.
  • 12:58 🤔 After repeated exposure, the dog's response to pain changed to pleasure.
    • After repeated exposure to a painful stimulus, the dog's initial response of pain gradually changed to a longer and stronger response of pleasure.
  • 14:45 💪 Inviting pain into our lives can have positive effects on our mental and physical health.
    • We must seek out and invite pain into our lives to reap the positive effects on mood, anxiety, cognition, energy, and sleep.
  • 16:28 💪 Embrace the world and have faith in your actions for a healthier life.
    • Rather than seeking oblivion by escaping from the world, immerse yourself in it and find a way to face whatever it is you're trying to escape.
    • We must have faith that our daily actions will accumulate in a positive direction, leading to a healthier and more balanced life.

 

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