Traditional gender roles and expectations are being challenged by modern women, leading to a shift in dynamics and expectations in relationships
Questions to inspire discussion
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What do modern women feel frustrated about in relationships?
—Modern women feel frustrated about being asked what they bring to the table and feeling like they have nothing to offer men.
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What do women bring to the table in relationships?
—Women bring emotional support, comfort, compassion, care, healing, beauty, femininity, pride, a second opinion, support for goals, intimacy, closeness, empathy, understanding, and guidance to the table for men.
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What do men need to bring to the table in relationships?
—Men need to bring more to the table than just love and affection, as modern women are independent and can provide for themselves.
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What are modern women experiencing in relationships?
—Modern women are experiencing dangerous and manipulative behavior in relationships, leading to many men removing themselves from the dating scene.
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What role does physical appearance play in relationships?
—Attraction plays a significant role in male-female friendships and relationships, with the outcome depending on the physical appearance of both individuals.
Key Insights
- 🧠 "Our women don't say ah I have brains I can do this. I can help you take your business to the next level." - The focus on traditional gender roles and expectations is being challenged by modern women.
- 😡 "They blame the patriarchy while having a huge List of Demands for a man all while they have kids at home and 20 beta orbiters."
- 💔 "I've seen y'all men comfort each other and it is the lamest thing ever." Women provide intimacy, closeness, empathy, understanding, and guidance that men may lack.
- 🏡 "I could cook and clean and I know how to make a house a home, but I do it out of love so I'm able to feed my family love from the inside out when they eat my food."
- 🤔 "Women have such a jaded view of this question because they bought into feminism."
- 😡 "Your presence is meaningless to US unless you're giving us the things that we are looking for in a relationship."
- 🤯 "Relationships are straight up dangerous in all aspects for men these days, it's insane and people wonder why they've removed themselves from the dating scene."
- 💔 If a guy is not attractive but has a good personality and is successful, a beautiful girl will settle in the looks department and marry him.
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Clips
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00:00 🤯 Women frustrated at being asked what they bring to the table, feel they bring everything including kids and mental health, while men focus on physical attributes, leading to discomfort and anxiety in social interactions.
- Modern women express frustration at being asked what they bring to the table, feeling that they bring everything including their kids, mental health, and life, while men are focused on physical attributes.
- Women feel uncomfortable and anxious around men due to societal perceptions, and they refuse casual date options in favor of dinner to assess a man's behavior and manners.
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02:08 🚺 Women feel they have nothing to offer men, while there is a discussion about what both genders bring to a relationship.
- Women are losing their minds because they feel they have nothing to offer men, and there is a discussion about what both men and women bring to the table in a relationship.
- Women are criticized for not having skills or hobbies and are seen as high maintenance, while men are encouraged to embrace their masculinity and develop new hobbies and ideas.
- Women bring emotional support, comfort, compassion, care, healing, beauty, femininity, pride, a second opinion, support for goals, intimacy, closeness, empathy, understanding, and guidance to the table for men.
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04:56 🤯 Women feel frustrated about having nothing to offer men in terms of support, but should focus on personal attributes and positive energy in a relationship.
- Women express frustration about feeling like they have nothing to offer men in terms of comfort and support.
- Modern women are independent and can provide for themselves, so men need to bring more to the table than just love and affection.
- Women are expressing frustration about being independent and not having anything to offer in a relationship.
- Women should focus on their personal attributes, mindset, and positive energy as their greatest assets in a relationship, rather than just material possessions.
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08:44 🚺 Women are feeling inadequate and frustrated in relationships due to societal expectations and the influence of feminism, while men are seeking more value and respect from women.
- Women are losing their minds because they feel they have nothing to offer men due to societal expectations and the influence of feminism.
- Women need to bring real value to men instead of just expecting their presence to be enough, as men can get love and companionship from a dog without the drama and entitlement.
- Women are frustrated because men are not offering them respect, acknowledgement, and peace in relationships, and their presence is meaningless without these things.
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12:09 🚺 Women feel invalidated and reduced to their physical appearance and social media presence, while one woman confronts a man and admits she misses him and wants to get back together.
- Women are seen as having nothing to offer men and are validated by goofy phrases, with the only things they bring to the table being their physical appearance and social media presence.
- A woman confronts a man, accusing him of still being interested in her and eventually admits that she misses him and wants to get back together.
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13:42 🚺 Modern women facing manipulation and low effort in relationships, leading to men leaving the dating scene, while one woman learns about love bombing and the "penny method" from a male friend.
- Modern women are experiencing dangerous and manipulative behavior in relationships, leading to many men removing themselves from the dating scene, and one woman learns about the "penny method" of love bombing from a male friend.
- Women are being manipulated by men to accept less effort and should demand more, while the speaker criticizes women's appearance and behavior.
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16:04 🤯 A woman's fiance asks for open marriage, therapist is biased, relationship ends, attraction plays significant role in male-female relationships.
- Fiance asked for open marriage, wanted therapy before wedding, was secretive about therapy, recorded therapy session, canceled wedding.
- A woman is told by her fiance and therapist that they want a non-conventional marriage where the fiance can sleep with other men but the woman cannot do the same.
- A man confronts his fiance's therapist, accuses her of being biased towards women, and decides to end the relationship.
- Attraction plays a significant role in male-female friendships and relationships, with the outcome depending on the physical appearance of both individuals.
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19:18 🤦 Women have nothing to offer men and only value successful and rich men, while there is no benefit for men to be friends with women.
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Duration: 0:34:3
Publication Date: 2024-05-30T21:03:46Z
WatchUrl: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sdXLOcyPLyY
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