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Why men and boys are struggling | Richard Reeves
“People warned me against writing a book about boys and men.” Richard Reeves explains the big problems facing men today – and why no one is talking about them. Subscribe to Big Think on YouTube ► https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvQECJukTDE2i6aCoMnS-Vg?sub_confirmation=1 Up next, Male inequality, explained by an expert ► https://youtu.be/DBG1Wgg32Ok To watch all of our full-length interviews, click here ► https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL5uULy4b0kV6ecEhb7Dcsbt7o-l5n20Ve&feature=share "Are men and boys in crisis? In his book “Of Boys and Men: Why the Modern Male Is Struggling, Why It Matters, and What to Do About It”, Richard Reeves, a senior fellow at the Brookings Institution, explores several of the key challenges facing boys and men, including the friendship recession, the evolving nature of marriage, and the gender pay gap. To Reeves, these problems are generally structural, not individual, and the interventions tried so far haven't been very effective. The friendship recession is particularly affecting men, with the percentage of men who report having no close friends showing a fivefold increase compared to the 1990s. This social isolation can lead to numerous mental health issues and negatively impact their overall well-being. Meanwhile, marriage patterns have also shifted, creating a growing class divide, with educated couples more likely to marry and stay together than their less-educated counterparts. This divide exacerbates economic and social inequalities. Reeves argues that we ought to confront the crises facing boys and men in a deliberate and thoughtful manner. By addressing these challenges head-on, society can work toward a more equitable and inclusive future where both men and women can thrive." 0:00 Meet Richard Reeves 0:20 Part 1: The challenges facing boys and men 3:44 What is the education landscape like today for men and women? 8:37 How does brain development impact education? 12:46 Are boys more likely to be diagnosed with developmental disabilities? 16:59 What changes could we make to help boys in education? 18:52 Why do most men today earn less than men did 40 years ago? 22:58 Which occupations are the most gender segregated? 27:16 Which skills impact male employability? 28:50 How has fatherhood changed? 33:45 How is all of this affecting the well-being of men? 37:06 Part 2: The friendship recession 39:17 What was the traditional view of friendship? 40:47 What factors are getting in the way of people having more friends? 45:29 Why is it so hard to make friends as one gets older? 48:15 What are the negative impacts of not having friends? 50:15 Why is it beneficial to have diversity amongst your friends? 53:08 Part 3: The death of marriage 57:00 How has the concept of marriage in America changed? 1:03:12 Is marriage now more about love than necessity? 1:05:18 What is the future of marriage? 1:08:40 Part 4: The gender pay gap 1:13:24 Why is there still a pay gap for women? 1:18:36 Who else is affected by a pay gap? 1:21:14 Would you change anything about "Of Boys and Men"? 1:23:41 What do you hope to achieve with your book? ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- About Richard Reeves: Richard V. Reeves is a senior fellow at the Brookings Institution, where he directs the Future of the Middle Class Initiative and co-directs the Center on Children and Families. His Brookings research focuses on the middle class, inequality and social mobility. Richard writes for a wide range of publications, including the New York Times, Guardian, National Affairs, The Atlantic, Democracy Journal, and Wall Street Journal. He is the author of Dream Hoarders (Brookings Institution Press, 2017), and John Stuart Mill – Victorian Firebrand (Atlantic Books, 2007), an intellectual biography of the British liberal philosopher and politician. Dream Hoarders was named a Book of the Year by The Economist, a Political Book of the Year by The Observer, and was shortlisted for the Goddard Riverside Stephan Russo Book Prize for Social Justice. In September 2017, Politico magazine named Richard one of the top 50 thinkers in the U.S. for his work on class and inequality. A Brit-American, Richard was director of strategy to the UK’s Deputy Prime Minister from 2010 to 2012. Other previous roles include director of Demos, the London-based political think-tank; social affairs editor of the Observer; principal policy advisor to the Minister for Welfare Reform, and research fellow at the Institute for Public Policy Research. Richard is also a former European Business Speaker of the Year and has a BA from Oxford University and a PhD from Warwick University.
Why Do The Left Not Care About Men’s Problems? - George TheTinMen | Modern Wisdom 658
George TheTinMen is a content creator, pro-men's advocate and social media influencer.
The conversation around the issues of men and boys has been dominated by the Right for a long time now. The Left largely seem to have abandoned the entire male sex. So what happens when an openly Left-leaning man creates a huge Instagram account talking exclusively about male issues?
Expect to learn how the patriarchy can be so powerful if men aren't flourishing more, why the Left stopped talking to men and boys, why George has an army of haters online trying to cancel him, what gets missed in the conversation about struggling males, how divorce impacts the development of young men, what people misunderstand about the gender pay gap, what men want from the women in their lives and much more...
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00:00 Why George Started TheTinMen
03:00 Can You Be Left-Wing & Pro-Men?
14:46 The Bias Against Men in the Family Courts
21:22 The Problem with Telling Men to 'Just Do Better'
32:18 Why the Right Wing Has Stood Up for Men
42:21 How to Improve the Conversation Around Masculinity
51:57 The Left’s Inability to Listen to Men
57:50 What People Misunderstand About the Gender Pay Gap
1:07:59 What Do Men Really Want From Women in their Lives?
1:10:45 The Truth About Fragile Masculinity
1:20:53 Advice to Men on How to Live a Good Life
1:31:25 Where to Find George
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The Shocking Truth about Human Stupidity: The 5 Basic Laws
Cipolla 5 Laws of Stupidity Carlo M. Cipolla, an Italian economic historian, is best known in popular culture for something that's quite distant from economic graphs and theorems: his Five Basic Laws of Human Stupidity. These laws break down the essence of human interactions and how people can have impacts – positive or negative – on themselves and others. The ideas are both humorous and, when looked at more closely, become alarming. 1. Always and inevitably, everyone underestimates the number of stupid individuals in circulation Surprisingly, no matter how many times we're faced with the consequences of human folly, we...
Gender bias in moral typecasting by Dr Tania Reynolds, Kinsey Institute & Indiana University, US
Gender bias in moral typecasting
Dr Tania Reynolds, Kinsey Institute & Dept of Gender Studies at Indiana University, Bloomington, US.
Moral typecasting theory posits that when humans evaluate moral interactions, they instinctively typecast the involved individuals into two roles: harm-inflicting perpetrator or suffering victim. We predicted that the application of this cognitive schema is biased by gender, such that women are more easily typecast as victims and men as perpetrators. This was tested with 5 studies (N=1,538). The full paper is available here https://drive.google.com/file/d/1L-4V9iwpVhyMy-sHUgxj8b1PuouQvxa2/view
Can You Talk To A Feminist About Masculinity? - Christine Emba | Modern Wisdom 664
Christine Emba is an opinion columnist at The Washington Post, journalist, social commentator, and an author.
Christine wrote one of the best articles on modern masculinity that I've ever read and it absolutely broke the internet. But it begs the question of why it's come down to a woman to raise the topic of men's issues.
Expect to learn why making men and women equal is good but overreaching into making men and women the same is terrible, whether Christine thinks it is harder to be a man in 2023, the biggest issues that boys & men are facing, why it is women who are dominating the narrative on what it means to be masculine, why the only "non-toxic" suggestions for masculinity just look a lot like traditional femininity and much more...
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00:00 Christine’s Controversial Article
02:31 What is Happening to Men Today?
09:54 The Term ‘Toxic Masculinity’
16:39 The Failings of Modern Feminism
22:20 Why the Right Adopted Men’s Issues
25:20 Why Male Issues are Represented by Women in Mainstream Media
30:54 Are Conservative Men Are More Attractive?
37:16 Why the Left Are Ignoring Men
46:17 Recognising Female Success & De-gendering Male Success
52:32 Is the Masculinity Crisis Impacted by Absent Fathers?
1:00:43 The Need for Single-Sex Spaces for Male Bonding
1:09:05 Who is Trying to Provide a Solution for Men?
1:20:56 Has the Left Criticised Christine?
1:26:03 Where to Find Christine
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