Why Does The World Not Care About Men’s Mental Health?

Society needs to recognize and address the unique challenges and experiences of men who are victims of sexual violence and abuse, and break the stigma and barriers that prevent them from seeking help and support 

Questions to inspire discussion 

• What are the unique challenges men face in seeking help for sexual violence?

  —Men face stigma and barriers that prevent them from seeking help and support for sexual violence, leading to overlooked mental health issues.

• How does the lack of male spaces impact men's mental health?

  —The lack of male spaces and conversations leads to male loneliness, isolation, and the loss of male role models, impacting mental health.

• What is the impact of toxic online spaces on men's mental health?

  —Toxic online spaces, originally created for safety, have turned into places where personal information about men is shared, leading to threats and even suicides.

• How is the portrayal of men in media affecting their mental health?

  —The portrayal of perfect female protagonists and lack of vulnerability in female superheroes perpetuates a narrow and two-dimensional set of characters, impacting men's mental health.

• Why is it important to address men's mental health and domestic violence?

  —Men's mental health and domestic violence against men are often overlooked, leading to misleading statistics and a lack of awareness about the issue.

Key Insights

• 🧠 "There's no such thing as abnormal behavior, only a normal response and abnormal set of experiences."
• 🤯 Sexual violence and rape are not just about physical power, but also involve psychological and emotional pressure, coercion, and threats.
• 🚹 Men face unique challenges in reporting sexual assault and seeking help, as societal norms and perceptions of masculinity can make them hesitant to come forward.
• 🔪 The chilling testimony of a mother witnessing domestic violence highlights the need to break the cycle of violence.
• 🤔 "We just need to talk about when it happens to men, which we don't do."
• 📸 The fear of "stranger danger" has led to men being unfairly viewed as potential predators, impacting their ability to engage in normal parenting activities.
• 🔄 The metrics we use to measure equality are not inclusive enough and give a warped perspective of reality, minimizing male suffering and victimhood.
• 🚹 Men in prison share the same experiences of abuse and trauma as women, yet there is a lack of compassion and understanding for their struggles, especially from prominent figures like Jess Phillips.

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Clips

• 00:00 🚹 Men's mental health is often overlooked and dismissed, leading to the loss of male role models and the rise of toxic online spaces, impacting men's safety and well-being.
  • Men's mental health, particularly the issue of male loneliness and isolation, is often overlooked and dismissed, with the idea of men having "guys nights" being met with criticism and a lack of understanding.
  • The lack of male spaces and conversations for men impacts mental health and leads to the loss of male role models and the rise of knife crime.
  • Men are being pushed to open up and talk about their feelings, but male spaces are being destroyed and International Men's Day is not given the same recognition as other days.
  • Private Facebook groups called "Are We Dating the Same Guy" started off as a way for women to ensure their safety while dating, but have turned into toxic spaces where women share personal information about men, leading to threats to men's safety and even suicides.
  • The speaker discusses the lack of attention to men's mental health and the toxic online spaces for both men and women.
  • Men's mental health is often overlooked and misunderstood, and it is important to consider the experiences and context that have shaped individuals' behaviors and struggles.
• 20:23 🚹 Men's mental health is overlooked due to double standards in society, including the glorification of female violence, lack of privacy protection, and disadvantage in emotional and linguistic conflicts.
  • The speaker discusses the double standard in society regarding violence between men and women, highlighting the glorification of female violence towards men and the lack of accountability for it.
  • There is a double standard in how men's privacy is not respected when their explicit images are leaked, compared to the outrage and protection given to women in similar situations.
  • Men have a sense of respect for their partners' bodies and sex, while women openly discuss and detail sexual experiences, leading to a double standard in discourse around men's bodies.
  • Men don't have conversations about mental health, women are better at building relationships and language, and toxic behavior in female groups is not talked about.
  • Men are at a disadvantage in emotional and linguistic conflicts, while women have an advantage in soft power and influence.
  • The unspoken relational aggression and portrayal of perfect female protagonists in media is hurting women's mental health and perpetuating fragility and narcissism.
• 34:29 🚹 Men's mental health and sexual assault are not taken seriously, leading to misleading statistics and a lack of awareness, while the world needs to care more about the impact of domestic violence on male suicides.
  • Male superheroes are relatable because of their weaknesses, while female superheroes lack vulnerability and are portrayed as 10 out of 10 in strength, leading to a narrow and two-dimensional set of characters in media and entertainment.
  • The speaker discusses the lack of support for men's mental health and the societal bias towards women as victims.
  • Men's mental health and sexual assault by women are not taken seriously, leading to misleading statistics and a lack of awareness about the issue.
  • The definition of rape needs to be changed to include men as victims, and there is a lack of awareness and support for men's mental health and sexual assault.
  • Domestic violence is not a gendered issue, with both men and women being capable of violence, and the perception of domestic violence needs to be broadened to include bilateral abuse and a multiplicity of causes.
  • The world needs to care more about men's mental health and the impact of domestic violence on male suicides.
• 49:59 🧠 Men's mental health issues, lack of attention and justice, and disparities in treatment are discussed, along with the importance of giving men the choice to opt out of fatherhood and addressing issues such as forced pregnancy, child support, and custody rights.
  • The speaker discusses a UFC fighter who brutally attacked his ex-girlfriend's new partner, highlighting the lack of attention given to men's mental health issues.
  • The speaker discusses the importance of addressing both men's and women's contributions to violence in order to break the cycle of violence.
  • The speaker discusses the lack of attention and justice for men's mental health and the disparity in treatment between men and women in cases of violence.
  • Men should have the choice to opt out of fatherhood, similar to women's right to choose, in order to prevent unwanted children and promote committed parenting.
  • Consenting to sex should not equate to consenting to parenthood, and men's mental health is affected by issues such as forced pregnancy, child support, and custody rights.
  • The lack of presumption of joint child custody in family court and the requirement of marriage or being named on the birth certificate in the UK leaves fathers with limited rights to their children.
• 01:01:50 🚹 Men's mental health is often overlooked, leading to dangerous surgeries and insecurity, while facing bias in industries and parenting spaces.
  • Men's mental health is often overlooked, and the idea that men don't face criticism for their bodies is ignorant and reveals a lack of understanding.
  • Men are undergoing dangerous penis surgeries due to insecurities and lack of oversight, and there is a growing concern about male body dysmorphia and insecurity.
  • Men often tie their happiness to work and money, while women have more sources of happiness, and the speaker believes that women should not trade their happiness for the same path that has led to misery for men.
  • Bias against men in female-dominated industries is consistent and hiring practices based on merit have resulted in more men being hired, indicating a need to reform opinions and eliminate bias against men in traditionally female-dominated fields.
  • Men face discrimination and lack of support in parenting spaces, leading to unequal rights and respect in childcare responsibilities.
  • The speaker reminisces about the Green Cross code Hedgehog campaign and its impact on their memory.
• 01:12:10 🚹 The lack of attention to men's mental health, negative portrayal in media, and double standards surrounding issues like circumcision and male disposability are highlighted, along with biases against bisexual men.
  • The speaker discusses the lack of attention to men's mental health and the negative portrayal of men in the media, highlighting the need for a more balanced perspective.
  • The world judges men more harshly for their sexual history, and the right's advice for men's mental health reinforces outdated masculinity archetypes that are no longer achievable.
  • The speaker discusses the lack of attention on men's mental health and the issue of circumcision, highlighting the double standards and hypocrisy surrounding the topic.
  • The speaker discusses the lack of attention to men's mental health and the issue of male disposability, particularly in the context of sexual assault in American prisons and the right's hypocrisy around trans people.
  • The world does not care about men's mental health and often overlooks the suffering and sacrifices of men in various global events and societal attitudes.
  • Many people who advocate for gender equality and inclusivity still hold biases against bisexual men, using it as a justification for not dating them, but this is not a preference, it is biphobia.
• 01:39:54 🚹 Men's mental health advocacy is gaining momentum, but still needs more support to address stigma, political discomfort, and demand attention from politicians.
  • Men's mental health advocacy is still in the early stages of reaching a tipping point, with about 16% of people needing to adopt the idea for it to become mainstream.
  • The speaker discusses the challenges that men and boys face and the importance of approaching the topic with good intentions and understanding.
  • The speaker discusses the need to address the stigma surrounding men's mental health and advocates for presenting facts in a compassionate and thoughtful manner to encourage people to listen and understand.
  • The speaker advocates for a wider perspective on men's mental health and challenges the political discomfort in addressing issues such as male victims of abuse and women's accountability for rape.
  • Progress is being made in the discussion of the need for a minister for men in the UK, with more support and less pushback, but mass support and signatures are still needed to make it a reality.
  • Politicians prioritize appealing to women for votes, so it's important to demand attention to men's mental health and raise awareness.
• 01:52:50 👨‍⚕️ Men's mental health is important and people should follow George TheTinMen on Instagram for updates.

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