The True Costs of Divorce | Stu Weintraub | TEDxSanDiego

How can we prioritize the well-being of children in divorce?

—By placing love before law, seeking support from clergy, counselors, and coaches, and establishing pre-marital mediation and arbitration agreements.
What can protect children from the emotional and financial costs of divorce?

—Pre-marital mediation and arbitration agreements can protect children from the emotional and financial costs of divorce.
Who should we seek support from during divorce?

—Seek support from clergy, counselors, and coaches during divorce.
What should be prioritized in divorce?

—Prioritize the well-being of children in divorce.
How can we protect children in divorce?

—Protect children in divorce by placing love before law and seeking support from clergy, counselors, and coaches.

👨‍👦 The emotional impact of divorce on children can be devastating, affecting their perception of themselves and their relationship with their parents.
💰 The true costs of divorce are not just financial, but also emotional and psychological, affecting the hearts and spirits of those involved.
💼 It's time we start to refer to divorce-related conflict as the epidemic that it is and change how we approach divorce in this country, prioritizing love, mediation, and counseling over litigation and legal battles.
🚸 It's time to change how we divorce in this country.
🔒 The children have no voice. It's time we include protection for them before they are even born when two companies merge.
💬 Model for your children how to be loving and respectful to one another, as verbal attacks between parents can deeply affect the hearts of the children.
🔥 The evidence of what can happen when we place love before law is an exceptionally close relationship with our children.

#Justice #Divorce #StuWeintraub

00:00 😢 Child expresses guilt and sadness over financial strain caused by divorce, highlighting the emotional and financial costs of divorce on children.
01:45 💔 Divorce can have devastating effects on children's mental and emotional well-being, leading to a range of issues including addiction, self-harm, and broken lives.
03:21 ⚖️ American children are affected by divorce, and it's time to prioritize their well-being by changing the way we approach divorce in the country.
04:51 💔 Children are the innocent victims of divorce and need protection from the collateral damage caused by court battles.
05:39 💔 Couples should prioritize love over law, seek support from clergy, counselors, and coaches before court, and establish a pre-marital mediation and arbitration agreement to resolve conflict and co-parenting issues in the event of divorce.
07:11 👨‍⚖️ Protect children in divorce by including mediation and arbitration clauses, and prioritize love over law by taking a pause and detaching from the legal process.
08:30 💔 Prioritize professional counseling, avoid negativity, and model love and respect for the sake of the children, as the true cost of divorce is the impact on them.
09:46 💔 It's time for a child safe divorce, placing love before law, mediating instead of litigating, and prioritizing clergy counseling and coaching over court, because kids don't belong in the crossfire.

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