Men often marry women who are good enough at the time, and women should target stable, financially successful, and older men if they want to get married sooner
Questions to inspire discussion
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Why do men get married?
—Men get married when they feel financially secure and have stable careers, and when their relationship is free of unnecessary problems.
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What type of men should women target for marriage?
—Women should target stable, financially successful, and older men if they want to get married sooner.
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Why are men getting married later in life?
—Men are getting married later in life because the cost of living is so high that they feel the need to increase their earning potential before taking on the responsibility of a wife and children.
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What do men look for before starting a family?
—Men are hesitant to start a family if they haven't achieved material stability or professional success.
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How do men approach marriage differently than women?
—Men typically get married to a woman who is good enough when everything is working, and they are less likely to get married if they are focused on earning money to feel ready to share it with a woman and children.
Key Insights
- 💍 Men don't get married to their ideal woman, they get married to a woman who is good enough when everything is working.
- 💍 No reasonable man is going to start a family when he is feeling financially insecure or his career prospects are uncertain.
- 💍 If women want to get married sooner, they need to target stable, financially successful, and older men who have already attained status in the world.
- 👩💼 Men now need to compete with women for the same money, making it more difficult for them to reach the financial threshold for marriage.
- 💍 When a man is thinking of getting married, he's gonna look at his woman and think could I deal with this for the rest of my life.
- 🚫 Unnecessary arguments or frustrations from a woman can terrify a man away from marrying her.
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Clips
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00:00 🤵 Men approach marriage differently than women, typically marrying a woman who is "good enough" when everything is working.
- Dr. Orion terban discusses why men get married and shares that women often seek advice on how to get married.
- Men don't approach marriage like women do, and they typically get married to a woman who is good enough when everything is working.
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01:53 💍 Men get married when financially secure and stable in their careers, and hesitant to start a family without material stability or professional success.
- Men get married when they feel financially secure and have stable careers, and when their relationship is free of unnecessary problems.
- Men are hesitant to start a family if they haven't achieved material stability or professional success.
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03:43 💍 Men get married for their own reasons, so women should target stable, financially successful, and older men if they want to get married sooner.
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05:07 💍 Target older men for marriage because they are more likely to have the financial stability that women are looking for in major cities.
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05:59 💍 Men are getting married later in life due to high living costs and the desire to increase earning potential before taking on the responsibility of a family, so women should target older men.
- Men are getting married later in life because the cost of living is so high that they feel the need to increase their earning potential before taking on the responsibility of a wife and children.
- Men are less likely to get married if they are focused on earning money to feel ready to share it with a woman and children, so women should target older men.
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07:54 🤔 Men get married when everything is working in the relationship, and unnecessary problems introduced by women make them question if they can deal with it for the rest of their lives.
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09:06 🤔 Men get married when everything is working, and they won't if a woman introduces unnecessary problems into the relationship.
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10:26 👰 Marriage is not about the individual, but about the stability and support it provides.
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Duration: 0:12:4
Publication Date: 2024-04-15T17:16:11Z
WatchUrl: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yQRPkxJbPVk
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