The video explores the reasons why women may reject men and how their explanations may not always be honest or accurate, highlighting the importance of pursuing women based on personality and lifestyle
Questions to inspire discussion
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What does it mean when a woman says "we're not compatible"?
—When a woman says this, it usually means she is not romantically interested in the person, even if she respects and admires them as a friend.
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Why do women reject men based on personality and lifestyle?
—Women have different preferences in men based on personality and lifestyle, so it's important to pursue those in your niche.
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Are women always honest about why they reject men?
—Women may not always be honest about why they're rejecting men, as they may think the real reasons are too hurtful or make them look shallow.
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Is compatibility the most important factor in pursuing a woman?
—While compatibility is important, it's more important to consider if a woman is telling the whole truth when rejecting advances due to historical reasons of vulnerability.
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How can men get honest feedback from women about their desirability?
—A new method is being developed to get honest feedback from women about men's desirability, as men and women struggle to communicate about compatibility in relationships.
Key Insights
- 🤔 Romantic incompatibility is a real thing, even if two people are high quality and admire each other.
- 💔 "There's no spark. There's no real connection that excites you fundamentally." - Sometimes, lack of romantic compatibility is simply due to the absence of that essential spark.
- 🤔 "The question that's important is not so much if a woman tells you we're just not compatible is she lying or not more important to ask is whether or not she's telling you the whole truth."
- 🤔 The instinct of self-preservation can lead to empathy being avoided, even if it means not being completely honest with someone.
- 🤔 The confusion of being rejected despite feeling compatible is because "it doesn't make sense" based on the limited information given.
- 🤔 Men want to know the real reason why they're getting rejected by women so they can potentially change it, but they may not always get the honest feedback they need.
- 🤔 Is it morally justified to sleep with a woman knowing she wants more from the relationship than you're willing to give?
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Clips
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00:00 💔 Women saying "we're not compatible" means they don't have romantic feelings, even if they value the person as a friend.
- When women say "we're not compatible" it means they are not romantically interested in the person, even if they admire and respect them as a friend.
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01:13 💔 Some women may not find a man desirable due to his feminine traits and talkative nature, highlighting the importance of essential qualities in romantic compatibility.
- Romantic compatibility is based on an essential quality that may be lacking, causing a lack of spark and connection, and women have different tastes in men.
- A man's personality was recorded and sent to different women for feedback, with some finding him desirable while others did not due to his feminine traits and talkative nature.
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02:40 💑 Pursue women in your niche based on personality and lifestyle, consider if rejection is due to historical vulnerability.
- Women have different preferences in men based on personality and lifestyle, so it's important to pursue those in your niche, and while compatibility is important, it's more important to consider if a woman is telling the whole truth when rejecting advances due to historical reasons of vulnerability.
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03:56 💔 Sometimes people reject others by giving a reason that is not the whole truth to spare their feelings.
- In a rejection scenario, the person rejecting may try to spare the other's feelings by finding a reason that is not hurtful but also not the whole truth.
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05:17 🤔 People often give simplified explanations for failed relationships, but there's usually more to the story than what they're saying.
- People often give simplified explanations that don't tell the whole truth, like when a woman says her last relationship failed because her partner neglected her needs.
- When someone says "we're not compatible," it's likely just an excuse and there's something else they're not telling you.
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06:59 🚩 Women's reasons for rejecting men are not always honest or accurate, as compatibility can change and physical appearance or fame are not the only factors.
- When a woman says "we're not compatible," it's a red herring because compatibility can change and is not solely based on physical appearance or fame.
- Women may not be honest with men about why they're rejecting them, as they think the real reasons are too hurtful or make them look shallow.
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08:28 💬 Women are providing honest feedback about men's desirability, while men's desire for novelty and promiscuity is explored with moral implications.
- Men and women struggle to communicate about compatibility in relationships, but a new method is being developed to get honest feedback from women about men's desirability.
- Men's desire for novelty and promiscuity is explained, along with the moral issues that arise when sleeping with a woman who wants more from the relationship than physical gratification.
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