Both men and women need to be willing to make changes and set boundaries in a relationship in order to create a healthy and balanced partnership
Questions to inspire discussion
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What should a man's role be in a relationship?
—The man should be a leader in certain situations, such as finances, but not control the individual in the relationship.
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How should women present themselves in a relationship?
—Women need to understand that the way they present themselves in a relationship is different from when they are single, and that men value their sexuality above all else, so it is disrespectful to dress in a certain way when in a relationship.
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Why are men afraid to set boundaries in a relationship?
—Men are afraid of being labeled as controlling or toxic, so they allow women to do things that are not conducive to a healthy relationship, but men with self-respect understand that there's no such thing as male friends.
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What do independent women need to be willing to do in a relationship?
—Independent women want the same men as modest women, but they need to be willing to change for the man they want.
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What is the speaker's view on successful and independent women?
—The speaker believes that successful and independent women are the least happy demographic in the United States, and the narrative of the strong independent woman is a lie.
Key Insight
- 💪 "I believe the man is the leader but he should be the leader when it matters."
- 💪 Many women want to convey that they are strong and independent, but not necessarily willing to change for a man.
- 🤔 Men feel a sense of betrayal and cheating when women wear certain clothes and go out into public.
- 🤔 Men are afraid of being labeled as misogynist or toxic, so they let women get away with things that are not conducive to a good long-term relationship.
- 💭 "If those are the type of women you like, you act like those type of women don't exist."
- 🤔 "Women that are single without kids making $100,000 a year that are successful are the least happy demographic of human being in the United States."
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Clips
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00:00 🔑 The man should lead in certain areas like finances, but not control the woman, and the woman believes in mutual acceptance of each other's preferences in dating.
- The man should be a leader in certain situations, such as finances, but not control the individual in the relationship.
- The woman believes that if a man doesn't like the way she dresses, he shouldn't date her, as she wouldn't date a man who dresses a certain way for a date.
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02:36 🚺 Women are perceived as having nothing to offer in a relationship, men value their sexuality above all else, and women are not willing to change for a man.
- Men are seen as the only ones with something to offer in a relationship, while women are perceived as having nothing to offer and unable to teach anything.
- Women need to understand that the way they present themselves in a relationship is different from when they are single, and that men value their sexuality above all else, so it is disrespectful to dress in a certain way when in a relationship.
- Women want attention on social media and are not willing to change for a man, and men feel that women should be willing to change for them.
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04:57 🔥 Woman refuses to change for man and wants to dictate all the terms in the relationship.
- Man is about to propose to his girlfriend of 5 years, but she discovers he's financially supporting multiple other women.
- The speaker discusses a situation where a woman is unwilling to change for a man and wants to dictate all the terms.
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06:43 🔥 Men feel betrayed when women wear revealing clothes in public, and often allow women to dictate the terms of the relationship.
- The speaker discusses confronting a partner about suspicious behavior and the different reactions they would have.
- Women should understand that men feel betrayed when they wear revealing clothes in public, as men have always viewed women from a territorial standpoint.
- Men who are afraid of being seen as controlling or toxic often allow women to dictate the terms of the relationship.
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08:54 🚹 Men need to set boundaries and consequences for a woman's behavior, as a woman who is not willing to change for a man broke up with a toxic guy.
- Men are afraid of being labeled as misogynistic or toxic, so they allow women to do things that are not conducive to a healthy relationship, but men with self-respect understand that there's no such thing as male friends.
- A man with options will set boundaries and consequences for a woman's behavior, and she must decide if she respects and likes him enough to comply.
- The woman is not willing to change for a man and broke up with a toxic guy.
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10:51 🚫 The woman refuses to change for a man and calls his boundaries toxic, making men afraid to set boundaries with women.
- The woman is not willing to change for a man and labels his boundaries as toxic, causing men to be scared to hold boundaries with women.
- Date the type of women you like and don't expect them to change for you.
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12:38 🚺 Successful and independent women are the least happy, and they need to be willing to change for the men they want.
- Women who are successful and independent are the least happy demographic in the United States, and the narrative of the strong independent woman is a lie.
- Independent women want the same men as modest women, but they need to be willing to change for the man they want.
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14:02 💡 A high value man will make a woman change for him.
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Duration: 0:14:15
Publication Date: 2024-04-13T12:41:05Z
WatchUrl: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3-PU-bfA7F4
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