Older men should be confident and unapologetic about their age when asked by younger women, using humor and playful responses to turn their age into a benefit that makes them more attractive
Questions to inspire discussion
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How should I respond when a girl asks my age?
—Be confident and unapologetic about your age, and use humor and playful responses to turn it into a benefit that makes you more attractive to her.
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Why do women ask about my age?
—Women ask about your age out of social convention, to see if you fit into their parameters of a dateable guy, and as a sign of attraction and interest.
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What if I feel ashamed or evasive about my age?
—Don't feel ashamed or evasive about your age, just answer confidently and use it to your advantage to increase her attraction to you.
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Should I reveal my age too soon?
—Don't reveal your age too soon or give logical reasons for being older, as it can come across as begging and turn women off.
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How can I use humor to respond to the age question?
—You can exaggerate your age, misinterpret her question, or use a playful answer to create intrigue and humor, and then turn the tables on her to get her to start qualifying herself to you.
Key Insights
- 💡 The question "How old are you?" from a girl implies that she is evaluating you as a potential romantic partner, similar to market research for a purchase.
- 🧠 Younger women asking about your age is a test of your confidence and self-worth, not just a concern about your age.
- 💁♂️ Younger women asking about age may be a congruence test to see how older guys react and test their confidence.
- 💬 The idea of using humor and exaggeration to handle the question of age in a conversation with a woman.
- 🔄 "You need to flip the script on her and get her reacting back to you if you really do want to have that younger girlfriend in your life."
- 👴 Using humor and mystery to respond to the question "How old are you?" can create intrigue and interest.
- 👀 Use humor to playfully accuse her of being a stalker, creating a fun and flirty interaction.
- 🦋 Once she gets to know you and starts to develop feelings, age becomes irrelevant and she will look past it.
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Clips
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00:00 🔑 Be confident and unapologetic about your age when a girl asks, have a stock answer ready to turn your older age into a benefit that makes you more attractive to younger women.
- When a girl asks your age, be confident and unapologetic about it, and if she walks away because of it, she's not the right one for you.
- Learn the best ways to respond to a younger woman when she asks your age, and avoid saying anything that could come across as weird, creepy, or unattractive.
- Have a stock answer ready for when younger women ask your age, and use it to turn your older age into a benefit that makes you more attractive to them.
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03:04 🔑 Women asking your age is a sign of interest and attraction, age doesn't matter once she's attracted to you.
- Girls asking how old you are is a good sign of attraction and interest, and it means they are evaluating you as a potential romantic partner.
- Women ask "how old are you?" out of social convention and to see if you fit into their parameters of a datable guy.
- Age doesn't matter to a woman once she feels attracted to you.
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06:07 🔑 Older men should confidently and unapologetically state their age when asked by younger women as a test of their core confidence.
- Women say they want a nice guy, but they actually go for bad boys.
- Younger women ask older men their age as a confidence test, and if the man gets defensive or embarrassed, it exposes him as lacking core confidence.
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08:39 💡 Don't feel ashamed or evasive about your age, just answer confidently and don't reveal it too soon or give logical reasons for being older.
- When a younger woman asks how old you are, she may be being polite, have an age objection, or be testing your confidence, so don't feel ashamed or evasive about your age, just answer confidently.
- Don't reveal your age too soon or give logical reasons for being older, as it can come across as begging and turn women off.
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11:05 🔥 Exaggerate your age to create intrigue and humor when a girl asks, misinterpret her question as a sign of attraction or humorously claim to be 21 with bad genetics and plastic surgery, and respond with "old enough for you" to increase her attraction and get her reacting back to you.
- Exaggerate your age when a girl asks how old you are to create intrigue and humor.
- When asked about your age, misinterpret her question as a sign of her attraction to older guys or use a lie plot line to humorously claim to be 21 with bad genetics and plastic surgery.
- When a girl asks your age, respond with "old enough for you" to increase her attraction, then flip the script to get her reacting back to you.
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13:46 🔥 Respond playfully to the question "How old are you?" and then turn the tables on her to get her to start qualifying herself to you, using a comparison to the age of a previous partner to reassure her.
- The speaker promotes his coaching program for men to improve their dating results and confidence.
- When a younger woman asks your age, respond with a playful answer and then immediately turn the tables on her to get her to start qualifying herself to you.
- The speaker suggests responding to the question "How old are you?" with a comparison to the age of a previous partner to reassure the person asking.
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16:26 🔥 Have her guess your age and then confirm her guess to match the age she wants you to be, and accuse her of stalking you in a playful way.
- When a woman asks your age, have her guess and then confirm her guess to match the age she wants you to be.
- Accuse her of stalking you in a playful way when she asks your age.
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18:21 🔑 Add 2 years to her guess and quickly change the subject to buy time for her to get attracted to you and look past your age, as once she gets to know you better and starts to have feelings for you, age won't matter.
- When she asks your age, add 2 years to her guess and give that as your age, then quickly change the subject.
- Buy yourself time for a girl to get attracted to you and look past your age, as women tend to put you in a box based on your age before there's enough attraction, but once she gets to know you better and starts to have feelings for you, age won't matter.
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