Giving a confident and mature man an ultimatum to marry or make a commitment is not a good strategy and can ultimately lead to the loss of the relationship
Questions to inspire discussion
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Is giving a confident man an ultimatum a good idea?
—No, it is not a good strategy as it can lead to the loss of the relationship.
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What is the importance of setting boundaries in a relationship?
—Setting boundaries is important, and a healthy woman shouldn't have to ask for a divorce unless she means it.
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Do ultimatums work in a relationship?
—No, ultimatums can backfire and lead to the loss of respect and the eventual end of the relationship.
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How can a woman get a man to consider marriage?
—Instead of pressuring him, become the person he wants to marry.
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What can happen if a woman gives in to tests in a relationship?
—Giving in to tests can backfire and jeopardize the stability of the family.
Key Insights
- 😳 Giving a confident man an ultimatum is the quickest way to lose him, it only works with guys who aren't sure about themselves or are dependent on their spouse.
- 🤔 A healthy woman shouldn't be asking for divorce unless she means it - it's a serious matter.
- 💔 When a person gives in to an ultimatum, it can lead to the loss of the relationship, as it sets a negative foundation for future interactions.
- 🤔 Pressuring a mature man to marry you by putting him against the wall is not a good strategy and may not be worth it in the end.
- 🤔 It's not a good idea to put someone against the wall just to put a ring on it, marriage should happen without external pressure.
- 😳 She learned the hard way that a mature man shouldn't be played with and I am surprised she didn't realize the caliber of man she had when he was telling her to do what she had to do.
- 💍 It's easy to get a man to change his mind when it comes to marriage and relationships, no need for an ultimatum.
- 🤔 It's unnecessary to pressure someone into marriage, it should be a decision made willingly.
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Clips
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00:00 🚫 Giving ultimatums to confident partners doesn't work, it's a sign of weakness and insecurity.
- Giving a confident man an ultimatum is the quickest way to lose him, as it only works with insecure or dependent partners, and women often test their partners to see if they are faithful, financially stable, and have their own boundaries.
- Pushing someone to marry you is a sign of weakness.
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02:09 🚫 Setting boundaries is important, but giving ultimatums and tests in a relationship can backfire and lead to the loss of respect and eventual end of the relationship.
- Setting boundaries in a relationship is important, and a healthy woman shouldn't have to ask for a divorce unless she means it.
- Giving ultimatums in a relationship can backfire and lead to the loss of respect and the eventual end of the relationship.
- Giving in to tests in a relationship can backfire and jeopardize the stability of the family.
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04:34 🤦♂️ Woman pressures partner to marry her, regrets it when he tells her to leave, realizing it was a bad strategy.
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05:46 🚫 Ultimatums don't work, it's better to become the person someone wants to marry instead of forcing them.
- Ultimatums don't work, and giving in to them only leads to more, so it's better to avoid them altogether.
- Don't force someone to marry you, instead become the person they want to marry.
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07:36 🤦♂️ She gave him an ultimatum to marry her, he called her bluff, and she regretted it.
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08:53 🤔 The speaker considers marriage after a meal, but realizes it's easy to change a man's mind about relationships with good food.
- The speaker considers marriage after enjoying a meal, but asks for time to think about it.
- The speaker discusses how easy it is to get a man to change his mind about marriage and relationships by cooking good food.
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11:19 🔥 Woman pressures ex to marry her, backfires when he only considers marriage after she cooks for him and he calls her out for using him for a tour.
- The woman tried to pressure her ex into marrying her, but it backfired, and he only considered marriage after she cooked for him.
- I told him to marry me or I leave, but it backfired when he refused to drive me where I needed to go and I ended things by telling him he deserves the woman he's with.
- Girl asks guy to marry her or she leaves, but it backfires and he calls her out for using him for a tour and not differentiating between boys and decent guys.
- 14:21 🤦 Modern woman expects man to do things for her, but he stands up for himself, teaching her a lesson.
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Duration: 0:15:5
Publication Date: 2024-05-11T18:40:39Z
WatchUrl: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M_VYpsqRJCs
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