There are double standards and expectations placed on both genders in relationships, with some men trolling women by imitating their complaints to highlight these issues
Questions to inspire discussion
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What is the "soft guy era" trend?
—The "soft guy era" is a trend where men mimic women's behavior to highlight double standards and expectations in relationships.
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What are men expecting in dating?
—Men are expecting to be reimbursed for spending money on grooming, fashion, and expensive dates.
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What is the speaker's view on women's expectations?
—The speaker believes women should contribute and pay for dates, and not expect to be pampered without financial contribution.
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What is the controversy surrounding the "soft guy era"?
—The controversy revolves around men refusing to chase women, expecting to be treated like princesses, and criticizing women's behavior.
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What is the message about partnership in relationships?
—The message is that partnership should be about equally giving and receiving, not selfishly trying to gain something from the other person.
Key Insights
- 🤯 Some men are trolling women by imitating their complaints, highlighting the double standards and expectations placed on both genders.
- 🤔 "Everything in life is pay to play if you want a long-term relationship. You got to pay."
- 🌍 The expectation of women wanting to be taken out on trips, bought purses, and pampered without having to worry about money reflects a desire for a lifestyle handed to them without having to work for it.
- 🏃♂️ No matter how pretty or attractive she is, men should run fast and far from women who exhibit selfish behavior.
- 🚮 Traditional gender roles are being challenged, with men being okay with taking out the trash and wanting to be treated like princesses.
- 💰 "A selfish act that you see a lot of women commit is from the women that will get with a man knowing his financial status and try to get his bag any way they possibly can rather. It's marriage and then a quick divorce or having his kids basically bringing life into this world that they don't really care too much about just so that they can get a real fat child support."
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Clips
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00:00 📈 Men are embracing a more feminine and sensitive persona in the "soft guy era" trend, demanding to be treated like women.
- Men are embracing a more feminine and sensitive persona, using phrases like "drizzle drizzle" instead of "sprinkle sprinkle," and the speaker is embracing his own softness.
- Men are participating in a trend called the "soft guy era" where they mimic women's behavior to show how ridiculous it is, and they are demanding to be treated like women are.
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02:29 💡 Men are in their "soft guy era" where they spend money on grooming and fashion, and expect to be reimbursed for expensive dates.
- Men are spending a lot of money on grooming and fashion, and expect to be taken to expensive places, but also want to be reimbursed for it.
- Men are experiencing a "soft guy era" where they are expected to spend money on women in order to take them out on dates.
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04:01 🔥 Men are in their "soft guy era" and women should start contributing and paying for dates to win them over for a long-term relationship.
- Women are expecting men to take charge in dating and in the bedroom, but men should start expecting women to contribute and pay for dates.
- Men are embracing the idea of staying single rather than putting up with women's BS, and some women don't seem to understand the joke.
- Men are in their "soft guy era" and the speaker believes that women should be paying for all dates in order to win them over for a long-term relationship.
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07:11 📈 Men are embracing the "soft guy era" and refusing to chase women or pay their bills, while women are expecting to be pampered without contributing financially.
- Women are expecting to be pampered and provided for without having to contribute financially, leading to a lack of appreciation for what they receive.
- Men are embracing the "soft guy era" and refusing to chase women or pay their bills, with comments supporting the trend.
- A man feels that women should offer to purchase things for him if they want to talk to him, but he no longer approaches women and only gives them hints that he's interested.
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10:26 📈 Men are in their "soft guy era" and should understand that they are the prize, avoiding women who exhibit selfish behavior.
- Men are in their "soft guy era" where they are hesitant to appear too eager and are advised to avoid women who exhibit selfish behavior.
- Men are in their "soft guy era" and should understand that they are the prize, and women who can't take care of a man or do gestures for them shouldn't be worth talking to.
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12:40 📺 Men are embracing their "soft guy era" and expect to be treated like princesses, so women have created monsters and should buckle up for the ride.
- Men are embracing their "soft guy era" and expect to be treated like princesses, so women have created monsters and should buckle up for the ride.
- Men are in their "soft guy era" and should not let girls take them to trash restaurants like Applebee's, and instead should know their worth and demand better treatment.
- The speaker discusses the expectation of financial support and emotional understanding from partners during their "soft guy era".
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15:19 📺 Men are in their "soft guy era" feeling entitled to attention and admiration, criticized for expressing emotions and humor, while women are seen as pushovers by men with money.
- The woman didn't understand the joke in the video about men being mad when they can't access the women they want, even if it was meant seriously.
- Men with money think they are better than others and women are pushovers because of it, leading to a "soft guy era" where they feel entitled to attention and admiration.
- Men are being criticized for expressing their emotions and humor, while the speaker questions why anyone would not want to live a soft life in 2024.
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18:22 🌟 Partnership in a relationship should be about equally giving and receiving, not selfishly trying to gain something from the other person.
- Partnership in a relationship should be about equally giving and receiving, not selfishly trying to gain something from the other person.
- People should not use others for personal gain, and it's selfish to exploit someone's financial status for personal benefit.
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Duration: 0:20:51
Publication Date: 2024-04-21T10:01:03Z
WatchUrl: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KQtQeYVj52I
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